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December... the 1st is a sad day for me... QP "Christmas Traditions" : In Costa Rica 'servants' expect an 'aguinaldo', what you call 'Christmas money'. It does boost the economy. But... crazy time to shop. I remember cherry chocolates and pies (mince meat, pumpkin, apple) and... old music like 'Silver Bells'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHefeA-hyMA Sox "November 30, 2021" : Yep. Holidays can be rough. For me these days it's mostly absence. Congratulations for getting through the month. Hope you come back sometime in the future. Perhaps Raen and Beaoul will spur you on. Cappucine "about Christmas" : Do your feasts include macademia nuts? I've been puzzled about Australians and their imported foods. For those who eat meat, what's wrong with rabbit or kangaroo Anyhoo... enjoy being with family. As for here... you got through another month... and that's always an accomplishment. Petra: "Plans for the holidays" : Thank you for making it through a very rough month; but, dare I say... you sound a bit better today. I hope the three of you have a great time together. *HeartO* Sumojo "Same old" : Back in my day, my friends were puzzled when I said I didn't enjoy parties. I gave quite a few... but I usually had a goal of bringing people together. "Having fun" was never a personal aspiration. Just like 30dbc... I am glad it's over, and will now take the time to assess what went right and what could've been better. I have no obligations whatsoever but after commenting on 99% of the entries I'll share my observations... after a coffee, tea or three (of each). Robert "Try to November Me" : I believe you last missed a blog day in December 2019... but I could be wrong. It's one thing to have a blue month... another to have a blue year. It becomes a bad habit. I do really like this entry. Facts and personal humor. Good mix. Sonali "Merry Christmas! - #30DBC" : Different country and culture. *Smile* Here, many go south and the students go home so it's a quiet time of year. Many people do decorate their homes. We have a local bar that tends to provide meals on holidays. Most places are closed. Congratulations on getting through 30 days of prompts. *Bigsmile* It's a bit of a marathon. Jenn "Invalid Entry" : I know a place that needs cleaning... just saying... Any idea yet what the theme of this year's ornament will be? I hope you enjoyed blogging this month. The 30dbc will be back January 1st. *Smile* NormaJean "30 DBC - September 30 = Oops - Make that November 30th" : I could do without the uber-commercialization. I'm surprised they don't offer a complete "Xmas" package on Amazon Prime. I'm sure local services exist in wealthier areas, an Xmas planner akin to wedding planner. Viv "Tradition Has Changed" : When I moved I made new friends in Oklahoma, but I was living with a family, and that made it easier. Actually did quite well in Oklahoma. Montana? Did okay at first but I've barely been outside the last two years; the 42 steps are daunting and there are fewer places to hang out than before. I have no plans so far for December. ?Sandy "Christmas" : Hmm... y'know... some people accept delivery! Of course, these days sending anything anywhere is iffy and a pain. Thanks for a peek into generations of seasonal glow. As for the snow... enjoy. Mike "Goodbye, 2021 [30 DBC entry]" : Doing the can can? Enjoy your dinner if we don't chat before then. Congratulations on making it through the month... it's a marathon. |
At first, I declined to read the responses to this prompt as the idea that we should even consider formulating a conspiracy is not acceptable to me. Now, it is 11/29: *sent* Sandy "Paranoia" : "I really do like this take on the proverbial "Dust hath no beginning nor doth Dust end." Dust cannot be swept under the rug. Are OCDers denying their heritage? "All go to the same place, all come from dust, and all return to dust." Dust is family. Sonali: "Conspiracy - #30DBC" : Yes, it is a good take on the prompt. I don't think I knew any step-mothers at that age. Grandparents raising kids? That I knew. Marvilla "A story I’ve been told" : Funny. Yes... children mix and match and reinvent the most interesting tales. Kathie "WDC 30 Day Blogging Nov. 20 The Fantastic Voyage" : I don't remember the movie but wasn't there a children's show about a shrunken bus? In any case... technology isn't that far advanced. Maybe someday. Waltz' iProd is closer to reality. Privacy is a major concern but this conspiracy was sheer Q-stoked fear. Mike "Reporting live from New Jersey... [30 DBC entry]" : Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Sox "November 20, 2021" : I only care that it's there. When traveling always wise to have some spare tp in the pocket. Petra "The Bermuda Triangle excists" : If it would turn my clock back 40 years I'd go there. Jenn: "Invalid Entry" : Ouch. I'm glad I just read this today. I'm not as cynical about scientists and government in general. I believe in Maya Angelou's admonition, "when we know better we do better." Sumojo "It’s a conspiracy " : It's hard to sort things out. I've been to England so I'll zip my lips. Cappucine "Platonic " : Okay... step away from whatever Robert and Mike are slipping to you... My belief in a Cubic Earth is soundly, profoundly Platonic. Funny, punny. Robert "People Eating Tasty Animals" : I was near that volcano when the moon tried to hide that shameful ball of fire. Was able to view it safely. Any practice that creates problems for the little guy gives a boost to the big guy. What more can I say? Viv "Truth/Lies" : Those who are obsessed with finding conspiracies will find them. What's wrong is peddling lies. We've all been fed them. |
30dbc29 *sent* Ray "Shuffling Off the Mortal Coil" : Start now. I chose other paths when I was young. I now wish I would've chosen the one you depict. But then I wouldn't be sitting here in puddles. Everyone at WdC should read this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgl-VRdXr7I *sent* Norma Jean "September 29 - 30 DBC - and this was Nov 29th" : Yes, we are old. The life I led will be remembered for a short time once I'm gone. I vaguely remember my Uncle Eddy, born 1874 in Sweden... it may take some time for you to be forgotten. Very lovely entry. Jenn "Invalid Entry" : Make a living will with copies to your lawyer making it explicit what your wishes are. Dead is dead but this is about your relationship with family, and their respect while you are alive seems to be key. I'm not afraid of Death as I believe my soul returns to its Creator, but I'd rather that my family have nothing to do with my mortal remains. Burial is fine. Viv "Accomplishments A Legacy" : Animals are important family to the homeless. A foundation sounds great. Sonali "How we remembered Mom - #30DBC" : Very nice way of saying thank you by making others happy. Children can give so much joy. WdC: Schnujo can help with how to memorialize your account. Marvilla "Life’s accomplishments " : I want my life to be a reflection of God’s love... a worthy goal. Robert "Future Perfect" : A very rational approach. Am I surprised? I, on the other hand, am too emotional for my own good. My nightmares indicate that my 'issues' are not resolved. Which would be good place to start as I'm a tad closer to the edge than you are. Sumojo "It’s almost over" : You have a good attitude. Many vibrant seniors here in their 90s. There's always new things to see and do if you are young at heart. QP "Satisfaction" : Finding a way to make something happen is a key. Time/job/health/timing/family/money ... all better or worse excuses dealt with by a change of perspective. Instead of making Ireland fit into your life, make your life fit around your dream of Ireland . You're half-ways there already. Send postcards. (not sent: Finding a way to make something happen is a key. Money is a common barrier many use as an excuse. Finding ways to spend less is only part of an answer. Time/job/health/timing/family ... all better or worse excuses dealt with by a change of attitude. Instead of making Ireland fit into your life, make your life fit around your dream of Ireland. // not posted: And yes... this applies to huser:cathartes02, huser:rig0rm0rtis, suser:kat47 and even huser:sumojo as well. I could sit down with any of you and figure it out (over coffee or tea), just as you could sit down with me and help me sort out my issues better than I can alone. Find that person who holds the key to your dream... and make it happen. [Free advice as I'm not good at following my own advice.] Kathie "WDC 30 Day Blogging Nov. 29, 2021" : The stepsons each have a life. The two sons need to find one. Can they both move into your place while you and your husband take that trip around the world that includes Ireland? [well... it ends in Ireland because you're moving there but they don't have to know that... yet ] Or... you could just move to Ireland and have both sons visit. They can arrange a work-vacation from Ireland... many do. In the meantime those photos aren't going to upload themselves. Not a bad idea to think about nephews, nieces, grandkids ... one of them may be able to help and actually have an interest in preserving those albums themselves. Don't leave them to someone who will put them in the trash (there's always one in every family). Just my opinion... I need to straighten out end-of-life issues as well. It'll free me up to make decisions as to what I want to do with my life until then. Petra "Just continue..." : My friend and neighbor came through cancer with flying colors. But when it came back... she made the decision to not fight it. I still have a note from her on my door. We all have choices. There are no wrong decisions in the end, but some aren't easy. Cappucine "moribund" : New homes for kitties . A lovely idea. Mike "Lebensende [30 DBC entry]" : I've met a number of folks... a very worthy idea. I strongly suggest beginning in Australia, Malaysia and India as long distances seem longer with age. Even Europe can be a long flight. Find someone who can fill in for your family responsibilities ... and go. Meet QP in Ireland... I suggest late May. Sox "November 29, 2021" : I'm lousy at self promotion. Many people equate money with success and nothing else matters. Not me. Yes, I'm published. Yes, it has been awhile. No, I have no energy to put myself out there. |
*sent* Ray: "Well written. Answer? Playing vaguebook*... there are paradigms out there wherein cooperation and a sense of unity with everything and everyone is paramount, and tribalism and consumption (read destruction) are not. Excellent take on yesterday's prompt. You mention 'power' and I think that's part of the equation but there is also a belief in 'magic' in the sense that a sorcerer with a magical wand will take care of it all without any effort on our part, as opposed to the notion that we have answers within our grasp if we seek them and then work on them. *Americanism is not the answer." re "Uncivilization" ?QP: "It's good to share personal examples to make the intangible seem tangible. I'm a worrywart by-the-way; the upside is that I usually have a plan B. " re "My Faith" ?Sonali: "But the voice in my head / Is on full time, my dear! Great insight and hope for a way forward. I was 'spoiled'. No maid... just no insistance that anything get done and little patience to teach the unreachable me. Unfortunately, I'm still that way. With minor editing there's probably a poetry contest for this. " re "Once Real, Now Intangible - #30DBC" Viv: "Congratulations on getting through this month (in spite of interruptions and obstacles)." re "Intangible" Robert: "Yes... I'll be keeping an eye out for your blog about freedom*. (here's a hole for you) *Why do I get the feeling that the definition is not the same as what is bantered about in public discourse? Hmm. " re "Life, The Universe, and Everything" Sumojo: "Back in the day I watched Project Runway... make an outfit out of car parts? Not a problem for some. " re "It’s magic" Jenn: "Northern European "Christmas" is mostly pagan imho. The Christian aspect is muted at best. In the West (America) it's just a transplanted cultural holiday that's been commercialized. Seasonal holidays: planting, harvesting, resting, make perfect sense... when they are freely celebrated... instead of 'owned'." re "Invalid Entry" ?Cappucine: "I may seem deliberate (when I can focus or plan). I'm definitely emotional ... or am I? I may seem creative at times but I don't have great creative talents. Of the 4 skills you mentioned: problem-solving, critical thinking, making connections, finding patterns; I'm especially good at sensing connections and patterns." re "Create Me " Petra: "Yeah... sounds too much like my reality. IF I ever get moving again (haven't checked my mail in a month) my situation may improve. I do binge watch at times but not much interest in even that some days. I keep my dishes clean and take a shower almost every day. Might not seem like much but better than doing neither. " re "Lack of energy" Marvilla: "It [faith] helps me to keep a better attitude. God blesses me abundantly so that I can give to others. See you after surgery. " re "Gotta Have Faith " Sandy: "Oh... you are asking far too much! Sleep? That's for the Dead. They have the spare time. I do write down snippets when I'm not overwhelmed. It helps if I'm depressed or bored. Or inspired. Not much ispiration around here recently." re "Creativity" Mike: "11th Chapter = Faith Chapter? I listened to both songs. I wasn't raised around either types of music in a very German Lutheran/Catholic town. I'm sure that in our town the Epistle of James was more in style in the 60s with its emphasis on deeds, rather than Twila Paris' sing and dance style of the 90s based on faith-only. My town was old-fashioned. The first song seems to be consistant with what you share about your beliefs." re "Faith [30 DBC entry]" Sox: "Magic... and the answer is ... the universe may not agree. Also, what seemed magical 50 years ago may be taken for granted today." re "November 28, 2021" |
GIVEN OUT 30 LAST DAY to WakeUpAndLive️~Happiness for making it through. to dogpack:saving 4 premium: DWG for crossing the finish line. 29 END OF LIFE to Ray Scrivener for "Shuffling Off the Mortal Coil" Evocative. to QueenNormaJean gettinPomsready for "September 29 - 30 DBC - and this was Nov 29th" Inspirational, personal 28 INTANGIBLE to Ray Scrivener for "Uncivilization" Opinion, plea for sanity. 27 NO-MASK-KARLY to Charlie ~ for "Invalid Entry" Assertive outrage, experience. 26 FREE WRITE to THANKFUL SONALI HAPPY WDC 24 for "Letting my fingers type - #30DBC" Personal, insight. to Cappucine for "tricolonic " Rhythm and grammar. to Marvelous Friend for "My November " Health issues. Eloquent. 25 THANKFULLY to Cappucine for "Gratitude, an Abcediary" Rambling poem. 24 BAD TEACHER to Ray Scrivener for "Another Brick in the Wall" Personal, very very dark. to THANKFUL SONALI HAPPY WDC 24 for "Don't let her cute plum looks fool you. - #30DBC" Personal experience, hurt. to QPdoll for "Mean Ms. V" Personal experience, hurt. 23 IT's A JOKE to Writer_Mike for "Testing...testing... [30 DBC entry]" Instructional, gallows humor. 22 TALENTED SUPER POWERS to Sumojo for "Super me!" Funny, fiction. 21 CONSPIRACY to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "Paranoia" Dust, funny. 20 REGRESA A MI to Shadow Prowler-Spreading Love "Invalid Entry" Memoir, gentle. 19 EPIPHANY to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "Eureka" Personal, devastating. to Redtowrite for "WDC 30 Day Blogging Nov. 18, 2021" Personal, affirming. 18 GREAT DISRUPTION to Jenn for "Invalid Entry" Personal, daily routines. to Cappucine for "counsel " Personal, health details. to Charlie ~ for "Invalid Entry" Personal lament. 17 MURDER, THEY WROTE to Robert Waltz for "The Butler Did It" Funny and unexpected. 16 EAT to Apondia for "Walk Don't Eat" Eating less. to Jenn for "Invalid Entry" Intermittent fasting. How to. to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "See Food Diet" Asipirin cake. Funny. to Robert Waltz for "Thought for Food" Eating single philosophy. 15 TRAVEL: a thrupling we will go to Cappucine for "around the apple isle" Tasmanian fun. to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "Our Sweet(s) Tour" Chocoholic threesome. to Redtowrite for "30 day Blogging-Nov 15, 2021" Dreamscape details. 14 WHERE WE MEET to Apondia for "Hideaway" Retreat. Awesome writing. to Jenn for "Invalid Entry" Riveting and spooky. 13 EUNUCHS to Robert Waltz for "Procreation Pass" Adoption. Personal experience. to Cappucine for "Alpha's Letter " Satire. Dystopian. Horror. 12 FEAR to Sox and Sandals for "November 12, 2021" Character. Hook. 11 IGOTTAGO to Writer_Mike for "A toilet too far [30 DBC entry]" Humor. to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "The Bully Bladder" Humor. Poetry. Experience. to Cappucine for "make my chamber pot" Poem. 10 HEYHAY to Apondia for "Make Hay When the Sun Shines" Experience. Takes you there. 9 CASTLE to Sox and Sandals for "November 9, 2021" Story. Well written. to LeJenD' for "Castle In My Dreams" Story. Chilling. 8 IN A DECADE to Marvelous Friend for "Now is my best decade" I-statements. Present. 7 PRAISE/CRITICISM to Cappucine for "praise is fattening " Knowledge. Sincerity. to Charity Marie - <3 for "30DBC Day 7: Praise Me, Don't Hate Me" Wisdom. to THANKFUL SONALI HAPPY WDC 24 for "Ruined by praise - #30DBC" Personal pain. Suicide. 6 LOST TIME to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "8 Hours" Meanderings. to Robert Waltz for "A Productive Day" Dystopian. iProd. to Cappucine for "a few of the endless perhaps, maybe" Poetic prose. 5 DONUTS to LeJenD' for "Caffeine and Sugar - 30DBC 11/5 " Greed. Humor. 4 MISSING to Robert Waltz for "Hide-And-Seek Champions" Missing White Woman Syndrome. to Charity Marie - <3 for "30DBC Day 4: For Maggie" Rape and missing. 3 ALIENS to Richard ~ Typing Left Handed for "New Comers - Z'llya's Voice" Fantasy. to Ray Scrivener for "Ruminations " Vivid. Hilarious. 2 MUSEUM to THANKFUL SONALI HAPPY WDC 24 for "Marcophily - #30DBC" detailed tour. to SandraLynn Team Florent! for "Dust Bunny Tableaus" Dust doesn't descrminate. 1 POSSESSIONS to Charity Marie - <3 for "30DBC Day 1: Possessions" Possessions do not own me. I didn't rate the comments as I was reading them but I have now... The bolded/orange items were 4.8; bolded/red 4.9 in my opinion. Of course, most timely entries meet the overall criteria of the challenge, therefore I awarded merit badges based on excellence in writing. Excellence was often overlooked in my high-school growing up and it's my observation that it's overlooked at WdC as well, so I award it here. |
*sent* charlieabney "You said it stronger than I ever could because this happened to you in recent past tense. You were proactive... kudos to you. Shame on the others. " re "Invalid Entry" My response to Sox: When I was younger I might have let it slide or blown up; but, at this point I'd be tempted to tell my boss, give an ultimatum if necessary (why is Karly at work!), go to the boss' boss, check in with Human Resources, if not satisfied, send an email to the CEO, cc/ corporate lawyer, cc/personal lawyer, cc/union lawyer, cc/department of health (local, regional, state). They can fight among themselves as to who will pay when they're sued. I do feel for Karly, as I don't know what personal issues she's dealing with and what options she may have at her disposal. But, it's up to HR to figure that out. After 2 years of covid they should have protocols in place. If not... they need to be publicly rebuked. "November 27, 2021" Sandy: My reality. I mouth breathe because my nose gets blocked; a mask is uncomfortable at times. I manage, others do too. // My opinion. The company has had over a year to implement policies regarding covid. Masks should be mandatory when you are coughing or sneezing. Period. // Does Karly have covid? It doesn't matter. She should not be in the office sick. Everything else is an excuse. "Karly Cooties" Robert: "Yep. I don't care about why K is sneezing or coughing at this point. Wear a mask or go home. Does she/he want to argue? Go home or you're fired. Companies are assinine if they don't have policies by now." "Go Home" Give Karly a fire, and she'll be warm for the rest of the day. Set Karly on fire, and she'll be warm for the rest of her life. Cappucine: "Harlow Flick makes a valid point. This prompt may be pointless in other parts of the world where illness and disease are not politicized and individuality isn't a supreme virtue trumping other people's rights. I like your response because 1. it is direct. 2. it is based on your reality." "No Time for Karly" Sonali: "Yes, I hopefully would do likewise; however, I haven't worked for years. These days I might create quite a ruckus. Only one problem for many... and I know this has arisen in India and Thailand: "no work = no eat". " "Co worker - #30DBC" Sumojo: "There are reasons why people work while ill. One is "no work = no eat". This became a problem in India and Thailand as well as in USA as the gig-economy collapsed. Artists, especially performing artists, were devastated. That said, Karly should be sent home. No excuses accepted during a pandemic. And maskless? Don't get me started..." "Leave the room" QP: "We get a lot of colds in the cold cold North. So, it isn't necessarily serious. But... But... I'm not as nice as you are. These days I might just start a ruckus... sick & no mask = attitude I shouldn't have to deal with. Too much is at risk." "Sick Karly" Jenn: "I so want to be in Thailand. Less covid. Or in Taiwan. Less bad attitude. In February 2020 everyone masked up before they were asked to do so. I was there. For some folks "no work = no eat". My friends in the gig-economy have been desperate. 40+ years ago when I first lived in Kansas people were kind and considerate. Perhaps no longer. People wonder why governments issue mandates; Karly is one of the reasons why. Some people cannot be cajoled; they have to be told. You are right about roads. Glad you can avoid most of the nonsense, not everyone can. " "Invalid Entry" Viv: Karly is sick. She should wear a mask because coughing and sneezing can make others ill. A mask will not kill her; her germs may kill others. It's called being considerate. She should probably have stayed home because she's sick (even a non-lethal cold is miserable)."Fear Or Lack Of" Petra: For most of the World masking and staying-home-while-sick is called being considerate. In much of the US you would be personally attacking her freedoms... "Home, immidiately!" Mike: Yes, there are plenty of people in Montana who would curse you; but, most would tell you to mind your own business. HR and Security gonna have a fun time with Karly. Montana is basically anti-mask and anti-vax, even here in Missoula. Quite anti-science with Q-supporters just north of here running the show. Yep... you better be looking for a new and safer job. "Bless you? Maybe. [30 DBC entry]" Kat? It amazed me how quickly the government in Taiwan responded to the urgent need for masks as the populace demanded them before any mandate. Sick folks just wear masks... and no one wanted to get sick. But... I suspect that the people are just more compliant, more rational and much better grounded in science. Americans are more argumentative/defiant, emotional and ignorant. "30 day blogging-Nov 27, 2021" |
*Sonali: "I never quite thought of a maid that way; but, it makes perfect sense to have a maid who also likes flowers, pets, children... anything that needs that extra attention. Our culture tend to depict maids as 'hired help' or 'workers' from the adult perspective of too much to do, too few hands to do it. There is another paradigm which depicts maids as extended family... but never considers that they may have a family of their own. You provide a "child's view" of a maid-as-a-person taking care of you, including the emotional need to connect. There are very few Americans who could share this perspective. Thank you." re "Letting my fingers type - #30DBC" *Cappucine: "Nicely done. I vote for Josiecat, coffee, a snooze. I love the smell of rain, the sound of rain, the caress of rain on my face. "Tricolons are one of the most powerful rhetorical devices. There is something almost magical about the number three." A quote by someone, from some time, found you-know-where." re "tricolonic " *Marvilla: "White flag? Only one? You may have missed a prompt or two but not more than that. I can vouch for that. My health problems pale in comparison. My teeth are going but my body handles things differently in general. For me now, it's the slow-at-times decline into the Inevitable. Blogs can be most powerful when the writer speaks from experience. This episode is recent and raw. No one dare argue with it. What you could've, should've or would've done is irrelevant. This is what transpired, this is how you dealt with it. Kudos on the appointments. Sounds like you were blessed. " re "My November " QP: {c:}"I had no limit on credits in either highschool or university. Graduated with far too many. One semester or two? I stayed for two semesters. I started to settle in the second semester. Not everyone adjusts in a week or two. I realize that times have changed but once in England she'll be close enough to Ireland and Scotland for long holidays even if Europe is 'closed' (although for her it shouldn't be). I was 'poor' and in many ways still am, in that I think in terms of stretching $$ that wealthier people don't have to. When I went around the world in 2015 it was cheaper for me to make one trip instead of two so I traveled for over 3 months and for my final flight had to buy a round trip ticket back to Norway because a one-way ticket cost the same... so I did that. Instead of bringing her back after a short visit (3 months = vacation; 10 months = the vacation is over) consider spending the money-saved on her traveling between semesters or having her dearly missed and deeply beloved mother come visit her... in Ireland... " re "Surprise!" Viv: {c:}"I do not believe in two gods, so I don't blame everything on the devil-made-me/he/she/it-do-it. Americans have chosen to divide themselves into tribes and attach labels as if Life were a TV show called Survivor with a false-god-like-emperor hired to say 'you're fired'. I'm not being robbed of my freedoms by considering others as important as myself; I'm not being robbed of my community when I choose to avoid them when I'm not feeling well (like this past Monday); I do not consider my fellow human beings as being robbers because they don't look like me, talk like me or call God by another name. In a world where anyone can kill anyone and justify it because 'i was scaired' we all die. But... that's not the world I see out my window nor is it my vision of any world I wish to visit." re "On My Mind" Sue: {c:}"I should've done... but didn't... so... I had no plans on going out today so I forgot that it's Black Friday. Another (more valid) reason for not venturing out! " re "My day" Robert: {c:}"I only use debit card. It does seem to be true that banks don't care if someone steals your money; they're very picky about their own money however. Still, my bank went to bat for me. I may have to get a credit card however. Paying it off every month is an issue because I'm not good at keeping track of anything. " re "Busted" Petra: {c:}"This. Now I understand why you've been as quiet as a ghost around here. It's as if you have been numbed. I gently offer this as a joke: "Invite SandraLynn Team Florent! over to speak with those Dust Bunnies. She has a way with them, might be able to entice them to move over to her museum by setting up a special exhibit for Dusty Dutch Bunnies." En serio... I have similar issues. Other than reading blogs and commenting I've accomplished very little and barely have stepped outside the whole month of November. But... I have two Thai TV series that came out with new episodes this week and ... *sigh* ..." re "An awful month" Apondia: {c:}"I love short walks in a blizzard. Good old lake-effect. I still have lemon merengue pie to finish. Left-overs from friends tomorrow. I don't understand internet and computer issues when they happen, just how inconvenient that becomes. " re "Blizzards and Daily Doings" SandySnow: {c:}"Soooooooo Canadian. Chapeau... I've been wearing my hat-with-flaps every day when it's cold. I have pair of mittens in the coat/jackets/winter-wear. Even a short journey bothers my old hands in ways that it wouldn't have decades ago. I grew up in the snowbelt, usually off of Lake Erie, which pommeled Apondia today, but also Huron and occasionally Ontario. I did love the first snow and we seldom went a November without one. One year we got through to the 30th! Whomp. 18" where I lived, over 2 feet where Fivesixer grew up, clear blue sky golfing weather north of us. Nothing quite like lake effect. Reality bites... small icy numbing bites." re "Work or Die? " Sox: {c:}"Well, now we learn a bit more. I do wonder where in the chronology it fits. Early on? Earlier? It does show insight into her character and what is valued on this world: affiliation and reputation." re "November 26, 2021" Mike: {c:}"Something is always forgotten! I had turkey-provolone sandwiches and lemon merengue pie. No cranberries or apple rings." re "Weighting game [30 DBC entry]" To Blimprider: I am NOT a judge for the 30dbc... but I decided to comment on all entries. There may be close to 500 by Monday. I recruited (not my job); I cheerleaded (not my job); I cajoled, reminded and even communicated to owners, judges, participants (not my job); I gave out badges (not my job) and need to give out over 40+ merit badges this weekend based on the quality of a particular entry (still NOT my job). I decided to make a difference; whether I have succeeded can be assessed come December. I will make suggestions before January. But on December 1st I can walk away (and keep walking and not look back) if that is my choice. All that said, I will have made someone happy this November and whether that matters to anyone else or not... it matters to me. 5249 |
I'm grateful that it's the 25th and November 30dbc is almost over. Also, that merit badges are half-off. Will give out a bunch. *Cappucine: "My go-to tea is oolong. I appreciate the use of this abcediary form. It gives structure, length, flexxxibility. Glad you are sleeping better. Now... if you just had a hot-spring (onsen) out the back." re "Gratitude, an Abcediary" Viv: "Keeping it simple. Everything else is like icing on the cake." re "Thankful List" Robert: "I do what I want all the time at home, so it was a surprise when our janitor was cleaning at 11 a.m. ... on a Thursday! Holiday hours was all he could say. I did get to take my shower. Whew... Billie Jo and I ate our turkey-provolone sandwiches and lemon-merengue. It's hard living alone with nowhere much to go. Every place is closed. I did like the old poem. " re "Putting the Attitude Back in Gratitude" Sonali: "I loved the washing machine. I'd settle for a balcony to hang my wash outside. I also like that you point out your privilege. America is deeply divided into tribes with privilege... or with none. Americans will not even acknowledge this. " re "Gratitude - #30DBC" ?QP: "You are blessed and willing to state that. Blogging allows writers to get to know each other. I see your comments spread around so thanks for building community." re "Thankfulness" Sue: "Many humans think that they are self-sufficient and that their personal freedom to do what they want when they want to do it is more important than the community's continued existence and welfare. Kudos to Western Australia." re "Grateful " Petra: "I'm glad he 'takes you out'. I don't get offers like that... " re "My companion" Sox: "I am grateful I had someone to share lunch with me." re "November 25, 2021" Sandy: "I have no family close... which is sad... and at the moment no close family... which is sadder." re "Grateful Pickings" Mike: "Yes, you are blessed with family and great memories. " re "Blessed beyond measure [30 DBC entry]" Jenn: "Well, I'm thankful that you're here as well! You were missed for a couple days. Maverick as in Mav? Ricky? Rick... or "Verick the Maver" when he grows up to be a goth prince... Neat name. Easy but not common. Covid is still raging here... I will only find out who has died when I emerge from my cocoon. " re "Invalid Entry" 5247 |
Bad *Ray: nordic noir "They showed me how to survive but not how to live. My words exactly. This is a prologue to the genre Nordic Noir. Whether auto-biographical or fictional it's devastating, stark and evocative. Jo Nesbø and Henning Mankell would be proud of you. " re "Another Brick in the Wall" *Sonali: judged "Yeah, like QP pointed out... I feel my temp rising just reading this. Again, a personal experience and the wisdom to not hate all teachers. When I was in university, I excelled at geology; but, a friend's death just before midterms meant I couldn't focus and I got a C. I can't remember what I said to my prof but he told me that he knew that I knew the material and that he would give me an A if I aced the final. I was the only student, including geology majors, who got an A in that class. " re "Don't let her cute plum looks fool you. - #30DBC" *QP: bullying by classmates and a teacher "Clear-as-a-bell memory, isn't it? Great details pulling us into your memory. I don't have any experience to compare this to. But there were problems in university and I transfered out of Hell. Mean people suck; kind people heal. U Kansas was healing." re "Mean Ms. V" ?Robert: personal "Kinda like Old White Men telling Young Black Women that their herstory doesn't matter as much as hisstory. Don't ever think that there aren't White Christian Nationalists and Nativists trying to wipe us out. When White Leaders talk about Legacy Americans... what do you think they're talking about? " re "I Did Nazi That" Viv: "I think 'meanness' matters as in 'dark-matter'. But kindness overcomes. That said, I wear black to perform poetry. " "Dark Teacher " Sox: "I think Life and Death play good cop bad cop. Death is the kinder of the two." re "November 24, 2021" Sue: "Some teachers need to find another profession, but that's true for every job. I could've been a teacher of upper grades or university, never middle-school." re "That’s easy" Mike: "Yes... at a time when teachers weren't encouraged to know their students I suppose... I wonder how many times I didn't get into trouble because the teacher knew me well." re "Faculty foe [30 DBC entry]" Cappucine: "Oh... Psalm 137 verse 9. "Blessed is he who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks." The OT of the Bible is cruel. I would say that Christians should know better, but many don't. The Wiblins of Lincolnshire go back a long ways (1200?). Hint: they weren't Buddhists. And like many, some came to Australia as convicts." re "Miss Wiblin" Sandy: "Teachers from hell. I do understand the wife-doppelganger thing; but, the dean should've understood that the problem belonged to the prof, not you." re "No Love Lost" Petra: "Yes. Thanks for mentioning the flip side. There are awful students and *gasp* even awful parents. Does not sound like a nice place at all." re "Highschool teachers" Marvilla: "Well, the good news is that you have the self-control you didn't have growing up. " re "Darkest teacher " Kathie: religious diversity "I ran into both [groups] in small ways that I don't remember. The North was no more open than the South. " re "30 day Blogging-Nov 24, 2021" Jenn: "Oh... how our younger selves made mistakes, both of commission and omission. When I go to Thailand I'll make an effort to know more about the culture than I already do. BUT... I don't get the impression that they are a culture of mockery... at least not like the British and Her Majesty's colonies. I'm sure they will smile and/or laugh at my mispronunciations (tone is an integral part of the word, just like vowel length is in English e.g. shit/sheet.) And it's not like they are free of cruelty. Even the Thais point that out themselves. Othered... I don't think I'll get too much of that either as there's a certain amount of respect granted to the elderly... something I need to get used to. *sigh*" re "Invalid Entry" |
23 noviembre. *Mike: "Gallows humor, but you make your point. In Thai/Lao culture it is mandatory to be polite (rudeness is ungrammatical). In Guatemala one always asks about the family first before business. In some cultures you make jokes about yourself but not about others. Humor like so many things is cultural. Thanks for insight into a world I know nothing about. " re "Testing...testing... [30 DBC entry]" ?Cappucine: "I did enjoy these. They work best as a quip in normal conversation as there is no narrative. It's prolly Et-wœn Wut-wœn in Thai (d > t at the end of syllables; r > n). The first one is totally unexpected and gross and that's what makes it special. " re "Arf arf " Viv: "I don't watch American TV and when I watch programs from other countries I avoid mere juvenile silliness because I don't find it funny. So, I don't tell jokes. However, I do appreciate wit and anything that will make me smile. And there is plenty to smile about. " re "Joke, Laugh, Live" Robert: "Did not know the word gelotology, so I learned something. And audience... totally in agreement. I don't have the same sense of humor as most folks at WDC so it should be no surprise that I don't care for these types of jokes." re "Gelotology" Sonali: "Re HP emoticons/merit badges I suspect that there might be copyright issues but I would like to see one of each house. Although, what would an HP emoticon look like? "They wood" is perfect English in some dialects." re "Ha Ha Ha Harry - #30DBC" Sue: "Hmm... I find many young women here dismissive. So... it's funny to a point. Beyond that? It borders on hurtful mockery." re "Hilarious " QP: "Deer in headlights... very common. There will be another interview. Grandparents are special; nice that you remember." re "My Favorite Joke" Petra: " Neither do I when it comes to jokes." re "No humor!" Sox: "I travel... some things really aren't clear. But when in Barcelona ... learn a few words of Catalan." re "November 23, 2021" Sandy: "I grew up with those kind of jokes... which is why I'm not fond of jokes. Carrie collecting blond jokes sounds like fun fun though. Did she ever do the hair flip while telling them?" re "Just Kidding" Marvilla: "I have little sense of American humor. I don't tell jokes. " re "Favorite joke?" Ray: "Can you please hold my hand... " re "Dark Humor Is Like Food, Not Everyone Gets It" |