Theory On Love

In reality I am inexperienced with the aspect of love. I have a fairly innocent view of it. I see myself as a romantic person, I can fantasize about being together with a person, just being there alone enjoying the moment. Perhaps running my hand in her hair and whispering to her. Not having a conversation but taking in everything and appreciating what you have. The happiness I bring to her life will mean a great deal to me, do the unexpected and make her anticipate what you will do next.
I am not a sexual person due to the fact of my inexperience, so in reality I can appreciate a woman for who she is rather than what bra size she is. Firstly being able to
hold the conversation is a must. I am not going to be a fake person and say looks don’t matter, because they do. At times I look deep to find the hidden and no so hidden beauties a person possesses. From her eyes, to the way her hair falls over her shoulder. I try to perceive beauty wherever it may be, and this makes all the difference.
It doesn’t matter is she is incredibly gorgeous, what matters is the types of
beauties she possesses that match with the beauties I am looking for. Like most things in
life our preferences change and this aspect is no different. One year I may want a girl who can speak philosophy to me, the next I may want a girl who I can play sports with. It is about the moment and what these two people feel. Ultimately, there is only one person for you that will be all that you want and all that you need, that one person that your whole life lead up to.
I honestly don’t understand why it is that once marriage comes around, there begins a cycle of mundane and unappealing behavior. The way I see it, each person is an endless stream of thought, speech, ideas, passions and love. No matter how long I am married I will always shave when needed and will always open the door for her and pull out her seat, leave her roses on occasion, and like I said do the unexpected to show her how much I care. The greatest thing that a marriage offers, is the direct communication and mutual passion that you share with each other that separates you from the world, it makes you into one love, a true love. This mutual bond is what guides you through thick
and thin, in sickness and in health, till death do you part. Once you understand this and your communications flows as freely as a river, that is when your marriage is strengthened to last forever.
Perhaps my views and thoughts are completely fantasy, or the work of a mind who refuses to accept the futile stereotype that love is only for convenience and once “love” is set, you are allowed to lose yourself in your own crapulence. I have been through incredible pains from this process but yet, I will always try to keep this bright outlook which shines light into my thoughts and allows me to view things in a unique way. That, or I don’t get out much.