Why should we marry someone we don't like? |
love! what does it mean this word? Does it mean happiness or sadness? We will not be able to say for sure because love situations are different and not constant Many people see love as a virtue that illuminates a dark well,On the other hand, some people believe that it makes life darker and worse,I wonder which one of them is right? For me, I see it as a mixture of light and dark Love is a strange feeling that comes when you least expect it You won't feel it until you find yourself immersed in someone's details Her beginnings are always very beautiful. You will feel butterflies in your heart and see life in different colors If there is love from both parties, you will feel like the luckiest person in this life But if love is only on your part, life will continue to be unfair to you again, and you will try to suppress and burn your feelings, but you will not be able to do that. When you love with all your heart, you will sacrifice everything for the success of your relationship with the one you love In the past, we used to ask the question: What are the characteristics of your ideal lover? The answers to this question vary depending on the person. There are those who are attracted to brown people, there are those who like white people, there are those who like brown eyes, and there are those who like colored eyes,But the common answer among most girls is a tall, rich, and handsome man But when you fall in love, your heart will not look for those characteristics, but will look at the inner template of the person ,A girl who loves a rich man may fall in love with a poor man,When you fall in love, you will look at your lover as the most beautiful person in this world, even if he or he is ugly,You will sacrifice all the qualities you dreamed of for someone who makes your heart beat,You feel like you would do anything not to lose your love,You will feel that life is worthless in front of the one you love. You will forget the worries and sorrows of the world. You'll just wish this moment could last forever.,Despite the greatness of love, it is a scary feeling,Imagine that you fell in love with someone from another world who is not like you. While you tell him the details of the painting you liked, he solves a mathematical equation that you cannot understand.Imagine talking about the details of the trips you took while he had never been on a plane before or cared about it,Falling in love with someone from another world and challenging everyone for it is an amazing feeling,But problems will arise over time, and you will not be able to continue your life with someone who has not gone through the same circumstances as you,You will not understand each other and this will create problems for you Jealous! When you see your boyfriend talking with another girl, even if she is his assistant at work or his manager, you will not be able to bear it and your heart will hurt.You won't be able to contain your feelings and tell your lover, but he won't be able to do anything because it's work and he won't be able to leave it,This is what will create problems between you. So I think that marrying someone you love will end sooner or later,I believe that in order for us to get married, the details and specifications must be carefully studied, and when they are available, they will be accepted,The two parties will exchange love and affection without feeling jealous or upset, and this is what makes the marriage successful,Why has the divorce rate increased recently? This is due to the spread of the idea of love marriage,In the past, marriage was taught between the two parties and the family, and this is what made most of our mothers’ marriages successful I know my point of view is a bit strange, but it is very reasonable and should be considered and thought about deeply |