why we resist change.............

" change and inevitable are interrelated terms". change is the most important part of life but still we resist change...
Nature has provided certain specalities to every individual. we all have two eyes, one nose and two ears but our attitude, nature and behave makes us unique from oneanother. In nuteshell , these three factors specifically build our personality which is often rembered by people. These internal ingredients fulfill this fact that " Bird of same feather flock together".i would like to mention a very simple example here: in this cut throat age of competition,there is a mushroom growth of highly qualified people. They are qualified in terms of education but still there way of thinking may be entirely different from each other. some individuals are solely concerned with fasihon and their life revolves around mall culture. on the other end some spends their whole life to do some things for society for their country. it force me to think if we all are getting similar education and simlilar life style to certain extent. then, why this difference occurs? This gap can be occur in terms of opinion , jugdment, and the process of thought.Individuals having similar thought process often get feeling of security from each other while in other cases we resist to change...but still it is essence of one's life .