TOOL TO SUCCESS

TOOL TO SUCCESS

At some point of time all of us suffer from disappointments,failures and setbacks in life.We feel like we are utter failures. Atleast I did.We blame our luck (bad luck ), and fear that nothing would put things the way we wanted it to be.We blame our situations for bringing in such disastrous outputs to our efforts.They are mere excusesSTOP!!! stop playing the blame game.

I had read somewhere, that success is not the measure of your intelligence,but your ability to bounce back even after you lose.I Kknow not all intelligent people are successful,and nor all successful people seem intelligent.There are certain guidelines i would like to put across that will atleast change your attitude towards failures and may be success itself.

Firstly and very importantly a self analysis is required.Make an assessment of your strengths and weeknesses.Why make errors if you know what you are good at and what you are bad at? Hold your strengths high and dump your weeknesses..Make mistakes but,learn from your mistakes and learn so much so that you dont make those mistakes again.


Secondly, believe in yourself.Have faith in your capabilities.This will give you the confidence to fight back and to be decisive.Being self confident will automatically lead to goal achievement.But remember not to be over confident.

Control your emotions.Being angry or aggressive will not take you long.Dont let negative thoughts reign you.Dont fear from taking responsibilities.Take risks.drive your creativity towards your goal.Have a positive approach towards life.Think more practically and work even more practically.


A change is always for the betterment of the self.Try experimenting new things.Dont do things that you have done in the past that have failed to bring in the desired outcomes.Stop making the same mistakes.Things arround you will be the way they are,nothing will change.You only can make a change by putting in the the right efforts.Never try to match yourself upto the expectations of others.This will only lead to disappointment.Compete with others but, let the competetion be healthy.

Be modest and down to earth always.Success should never get to your head.Dont try to be god yourself.Be like a child ,ready to learn new things and even newer things.Because there is no stopping for acquiring knoweledge.LIFE is a teacher and will always teach you something you have not known.Learn from past experiences,make every experience a new tool to success.