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LONG DISTANCE RELATION FACT YOU NEED TO KNOW

Ask yourself why you even entered into a LDR in the first place. What made you think a relationship where there is not physical contact and where you only see the other person as they want to present themselves to you? You do not see how they are in everyday situations and all the things in a real relationship that bring out the true person. Ask why you chose a relationship that does not release the hormone Oxytocin which is only released during intimate contact and sex. It is the hormone that emotionally bonds a couple together. Without it, you are basically good friends who think they are in love.

You were pen pals and you need to ask yourself why you settled for being a pen pal. Are you afraid of a physical relationship or do you fear it was a LDR or no relationship at all? 85% of LDR’s fail. I know because I was in one, although it was a physical one for 3 years and only LDR because I was in combat overseas. Sooner or later, one of you will need to feel intimate contact with another and, if you are not there, they find someone who is to be intimate with and that releases Oxytocin and they are emotionally bonded.
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