Hello! My site is nightbird and my handle is sandiegoabuelo. I was born in New York and lived there for 30 years. Then I lived in New Jersey for 10 years. I've been in San Diego since 1987. I have been a widower since 8/23/09 and I have a married 35 year old daughter. On 4/16/08 I became an abuelo (grandfather) to Maya. Please visit Lynn McKenzie , "Take these chances, place them in a box until a quieter time, lights out, you up and die!" Ants Marching - Dave Matthews Band