"Complex problems have simple, easy to understand, wrong answers." I made my living as a consultant, and I had (still do actually) this quote in my email signature. A lot of life is more complicated than we want to admit, including our problems. If you can solve complex problems with a wave of your hand or a few short words, please let me know how. I will find a way to pay you for your miracle cure. Until then, write about the problems. The more complex, the better. They might not go away, but you might just find some relief, and some friends, in the process.