Once done

If you aren't able to see fate standing there,and death arrives upon his mare.If ones soulmate suddenly dies,do you spend eternity asking why? Can another one fill those eloquent dreams,building new ones much tougher than it seems . Echoes of memories left undone, is it a betrayl to find another someone?Does the one gone depise the one new? Is the living lover worthy of two? Are we limited by,not our hearts but our minds?To think we only get one chance to find.Can there only be just the one? Is that kind of love only once done?