Listen to that little voice in the nice you. |
'Ive always wanted write and express my thoughts and my theories in life. However I've known for a fact that some won't read them for a reason. Who's gonna be interested in reading the thoughts of an unknown person and his theories of life, but for a fact I think I could help some with my humble thoughts of how life goes. I've tend to give my full attention to whoever wants to express myself in order to make them feel specia, and that there is a person who cares and understands. Don't txt while someone is trying to tell you something don't inturapt, just listen listen. I don't like sayig and I also don't like using the term "don't" it hits a spot in almost everybody's head. It makes them feel weak also makes them feel that you know better than them. Ask instead of saying "don't" for example ; a friend asked you about a plan he made for a surprise for his or her parents. He or she might say I'll surprise them at the door. However you thought that inviting them for dinner and cooking for them on the anniversary might be more nicer than the clichy of shouting surprise when they enter the house. To express that idea. I'd ask " Don't you think that if you made them a simple dinner and a nice cake to celebrate their anniversary? " instead of saying "No don't do that! This is such a clichy". You might think that it's fine and you're friends an all, but no forcing your opinion won't help. Your friend might think well who is she or he to tell me what do for my parents? That way you'd make that friend feel special. Support whoever you know on the right thing thet they're doing in their lives. A lot have critized them for what are they doing in their lives. Some students Fuck up at college, they know for sure that they're Fucking up and that their future isn't going to be as bright as the others if only, give them some kind words. Like don't you worry just go and do what you have to do. As long as you're doing it right. Do it. Everybody knows about what is going wrong in their lives. Make it better support and support. Happened to me with a friend. He asked about how am I doing in school I said I'm doing fine. What about you? He said I need some time thing aren't going very well. I replied ; Don't you worry man take your time and everything is gonna turn out just great. He was surprised! His recation was priceless! Saying that where have you been? I've finally found someone who supported me! He knows that he's not doing that well so do I, but he doesn't need to know it from a stranger that way. For sure his parents are pushing so why would we bother him and make fun of him? To be loved by alll be that little big loving person that all of us have inside of us. |