Noticing Newbies

Why hello Everyone:

my pen name is Nilin Cartier-Wells, I am here to express myself and to strengthen my brain. I find that interaction with like minded people will help me grow and learn new things along the way. I write short stories, poems and such however, nothing has ever been published but thats not a big deal to me. If it happens it happens.

To me life is so hectic at times, so loud and everyone is in a hurry to get the day over. People are stressed, over worked, underpaid and under appreciated that its nice to come home to a quite place where I can hear my own thoughts and my imagination can run wild taking me where ever I want to go.

I am and have always been the "mother hen" of my group of friends and even known as the "life coach"

This is because I am an Emapth.

Empathy is genetic, inherent in our DNA, and passed from generation to generation. It is studied both by traditional science and alternative healing practitioners. My mother was and still does practice a little today and so did my father now he is on the other side advising me, Im sure.

To an Empath is basically means:
Everything has an energetic vibration or frequency and an empath is able to sense these vibrations and recognize even the subtlest changes undetectable to the naked eye or the five senses.

Words of expression hold an energetic pattern that originates from the speaker. They have a specific meaning particular to the speaker. Behind that expression is a power or force-field, better known as energy.

For example, hate often brings about an intense feeling that immediately accompanies the word. The word hate becomes strengthened with the speaker's feeling. It is that person's feelings (energy) that are picked up by empaths, whether the words are spoken, thought or just felt without verbal or bodily expression.

An empath can sense the truth behind the cover and will act compassionately to help that person express him/herself, thus making them feel at ease and not so desperately alone.

I cry at the drop of a dime and had no idea why until I began to study being empath and have since learned to control it. But growing up with so many people coming to you as if you are a becon in the night looking for love guidance and so forth was confusing as a young adult.

The good thing about being an Empath is that I am a great communicator and that is probably why I went into marketing.

I find that writing helps me to express because I am a detailed writer as I am detailed in life.

I hope to be able to meet new people but also have some fun and be creative with others.