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There was never much hope. Just a fool's hope. ~Gandalf I'm not going to lie to you I don't have a plan for this blog, but a purpose does seem to be slowly emerging. I'll give my thoughts on this and that: maybe politics, a little religion, and talk about cultural touchstones that are important to me. Overall though I am going to be as personal as I feel comfortable sharing with the internet. This is going to result in some raw ideas coming up that may need to be cooked for longer, but I am not trying to write a perfect tome at the moment. Okay, listen up. Umm...You're a bunch of dirty misfits. But you're all that's left, so you'll have to do. ~Cayde-6 Writing is my passion and working on this blog has become a therapeutic source to me. I owe a lot to everyone who has read this blog; I don't know what interest first brought you here, however, I thank you for the time. Do or do not. There is no try. ~Yoda |
| Reflection Before I close this daily blogging challenge, I want to take a moment: I want to thank those that read this blog in part or whole, and I want to look back at how I did. I have honestly written better, though not as consistently when posting every day. I wish more of the time had gone into the side projects that I wanted to take on the side, and writing about how my progress on those was coming. I might have taken a larger bite than I should have; however, this month didn't go at all how I wanted it to go. And there is no planning for the unplanned. At the End And now I finally close out B.E.D.D. for the year. Despite everything, I do think I will be trying this again next year with a little more structure and some planning instead of firing from the hip. I didn't like writing that I was just writing without saying anything, and I don't think anyone enjoyed reading my posts of nothing. Tomorrow is a new day and a new year, and I intend to make the best of whatever happens next December. Happy New Year! Memento Mori,  KS  ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| Continued As I said earlier, yesterday wasn't a good day for me. Today has been better than the rest of the week, but I have had leaps and bounds better also. I am, at this point, resigned to not finishing anything for my selected contests for this month. If I do get something done, I will post it regardless of whether I can submit it or not. I am going to try and get a good night's sleep for a good start in the morning. This planet won't stop spinning if you have a bad night's sleep. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Catch-up Post Yesterday was... disappointing. I didn't get much of anything done, and after the lack of sleep I have gotten this week, I suppose it was inevitable that I would eventually miss a day. I am writing this as a quick filler for the missed blog post yesterday before I write today's post. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| Doubts At the End of the Year I don't know if I will be able to write a bad draft before the week is over. I wish I had more time. It's all been such a struggle this month to post, and I had such high hopes of writing a couple of short stories and a few bad poems. The start of this month was so good, but I just haven't been able to capture that energy again. Yet hope is not dead. I have a couple of ideas; I just need to write regardless of the quality at the end. And if I must submit a first draft simply to make the deadline, I must remember that my livelihood is not dependent on winning these contests. But I need to overcome this doubt, this self-destructive mindset that feels crippled with everything around me. I just feel alone and don't feel like I can reach out. I know I can— and should— reach out; I just don't know how. I don't know what I want, and I don't know what it would look like if I did reach out. What am I even looking for? I don't want a handout, but I can't do this alone. And I feel so alone. What the Next Year Holds Goinging into the new year, this blog will shift to a Saturday-only schedule. December has been really taxing on me, and maintaining a daily blog throughout has cost me more than the gaping hole in the wall beside me. It's hardly the fault of this blog. It was just the last thing I sat down to do at the end of a day when things hadn't gone right, and I had no patience left for the minor problems I suffered and made worse through my actions. Public Regret I have done very little promotion of this blog in the newsfeed and my own social circles. And if I can be honest to the readers who have stumbled onto this blog, I am sorry to have not posted my best here. Truly, I don't know how this blog has been worth reading for you as strangers when I don't even want my friends and family to see this (wholely out of embarrassment). I'm tired... I wish there was a happier tone to this blog with useful information. Merry Christmas and a happy new year. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| Thank You I am again surprised to find my blog featured in the "December 2022 Blogging Bliss Newsletter - One Hundred Twenty"  . I am grateful for the feature though I do wish my blog was more interesting and less pining over my lack of subject matter. Thank you for the feature Wordsmitty ✍️  .The Final Countdown Just a few days are left in the month, and I have written far less than I would have liked. I do have one good idea that I need to write down for one of the contests I set out to write for. And the other two are fuzzy thoughts that may need to be typed out and thoroughly edited in both directions. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Headache It was a quiet day today, but I have a bad headache, so I won't be posting anything substantial tonight. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Very Merry Christmas This was an amazing Christmas Day. It was a calm relaxing time with family, and I felt the love and silent concern that my family has for me and my well-being. At the end, it was a little overwhelming, and I almost cried when I got home and opened the last Christmas card that my brother had slipped into my hand as I was leaving my parents' house. I needed this time with family so much; it fills me with determination to hope for the future and work on what I can in the present. The past is what it is, and the only way to change it is to make it mean something in the now. Merry Christmas Everyone! Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| The Night Before Christmas It is finally Christmas Eve, and the festivities were absolutely delightful this evening. My nieces and nephews made merry chasing each other around the house and decorating cookies. The two youngest are just a few months old, yet they were also enthralled by all the excitement about the place. And the Christmas Eve church service was mostly free of the long shadow of lockdowns. The winter cold also let up, and we were below -20 for the first time this week. The snowfall has been magical, and I am looking forward to shovelling this blanket of white. Merry Christmas everyone. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| I Did It or Leave Me Be I had written a quick blog post, but as I went to save the entry the website kicked me to the login and I lost the whole thing. After much grief and I decided that this doesn't ruin my B.E.D.D. I was at my deadline for the day and I am not letting a technical glitch destroy my streak for this month. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| Another Late One Once again, I have logged in late before the deadline just to write a post about being late; it may very well turn into a cliche at this point. I may have to drop the 'K' to just make this a nightly blog. I have a super early start tomorrow, so I will be sleeping in my work clothes to try and speed up the day tomorrow; I really want that one elusive early day off work and still have my deadlines at work met for this week. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| That's Embarrassing I just realized that for the last few days, I have been mislabeling my blog posts by nearly a hundred days. This is something I will adjust tomorrow when I have some more time. Super Late Day I was hoping for a shorter day today, and I only just got home with half an hour to knock out this blog post. Tomorrow is going to be extra busy since I have two high-priority tasks that need to be done at work and a house to put in order before the Christmas weekend. I just need a good night's sleep and an early start with maybe some eggs to eat. Definitely will need a fresh coffee in the morning before I get out the door. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Not Bad Day It was almost a good day today, but when the morning was over, I wasn't done what I wanted, the afternoon dragged, and we ran out of material at the end before we could finish. I can't help but blame myself for the project being as behind as it is, and I know all too well at least three examples in the last four days that are the direct cause and firmly on my shoulders. I was, however, composed and mostly cheerful half of the time. A Smashing End It is with great shame that I feel the need to document my first hole inflicted into a wall through a fit of anger. I was trying to save a screenshot for later, and my mouse wasn't cooperating with me. So I elbowed the wall beside me out of frustration. I'm not proud of myself, and now I have to fix a hole in my living room. I hope I can get off work at 3 pm tomorrow—I have an early start—there are so many little things piled up around the house that need to get done, and I just don't have the time or patience at the end of the day to deal with it all. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| My Duty I have had a couple of hours to calm down, but this will still be a rather raw blog entry. Sorry I wasn't able to get it to at least a medium. My sense of responsibility is all out of whack; I am supposed to be everything and am nothing at the same time. Truthfully, I'm beyond my breaking point and am just clinging to the debris, waiting for a light on the horizon. It is dark enough that I can't see what the purpose is in all of this. I am stepping with the little light I have at my feet and believing that there will be more pathway to step on as I move forward. I just pray I am moving forward. My only clear duty is to step and speak, and I don't know how to speak. I only write for myself, the void, and a record of the past. Honestly, if it weren't for this daily blogging I am doing this month, I wouldn't post this, but I can't think of anything else to type. To Go Back I am glad to at least be listening to my favourite band, Red. Listening to one of their older albums takes me back to simpler times, times I ironically wished for better times to be in. I miss the simplicity of those days. I want just a single day I can take guilt-free with the world shut out and a pen dancing across the paper of my notebook. I miss thumbing through the blank pages just to see how much room I had to lay out my ideas in all their intricate details. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| One Week 'Til Christmas We are officially within the last seven days before Christmas. This year I am preparing handmade Christmas cards for all of my immediate family (there is a lot of us, and I can't afford gifts right now). I am practicing my calligraphy skills and tailoring my Christmas greetings for each member and household. I can't remember the last time I made a card, yet it feels natural to be writing and folding paper again. It's Cold Outside The wind has been howling, and the temperature has continued to fall. And my feet can stand it no longer. I have installed a strip on the bottom of my door to block the cold that has been sweeping in the gap. I meant to do it sooner, but sometimes the item has to be staring at me in the store before I finally act. And the result of the new door strip is noticeably warmer floors already, and it hasn't even been an hour since I did it. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Quick Note I got to just write down something before I chew my fingers off. I am biting them with a vengeance, and it is just another thing I have to stop. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Forgetful Day I have dropped the ball on everything today. I have forgotten everything, and if it weren't for this buzzing in my ear, I would have forgotten this blog too. I wish I had a drive in my life that was consistent. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Better Day Today was no flawless victory, but it was better than yesterday; probably my best day this week. I'm actually physically tired instead of being emotionally exhausted. The weather has been just a few degrees below zero (quite mild, in fact), just nice enough that my neighbour has gone and finished redoing the fence between our properties. Tomorrow I have a later start to my work day, so I have laid out a plan and a small list of things I want to get done in the morning before I have to leave for work. (I hope I can sneak some writing into that time if all goes well.) The Halfway Mark Fifteen days deep into the month, I am still happy to say that I have managed to make a blog post every day in December as if I am doing a challenge abbreviated as BEDD. If I can offer myself some criticism, the quality and length of my blog posts would increase substantially if I wasn't writing so darn close to midnight almost every day. So far, my best posts have been the ones I haven't been rushing to get to the end. Kind of like how this blog post is... Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| Present I am going to the daily blog equivalent of putting my hand up, saying present, and slumping back in my seat. I am feeling terrible at the moment, and I don't want to think tonight. I am going to go to bed and hope things are better in the morning. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| Poetry Prep I put a little work into my next poem, and I have settled on a structure. The last few poems I have been happy with are structured, so I am going to continue in that direction for this next one. My last free-form poem will not see the light of day; I must have been half asleep when I put pen to paper. I am going to work more on my meter for this poem; I think that was where I was weak in my last poem. Christmas Goodies I have now collected caramel corn, fruitcake, and a variety box of home-baked cookies over the last week now, and the sweet taste of Christmas home-baking is delicious. I am so very lucky to have a family that shares the Christmas bounty. As someone who doesn't bake much, this is sweet relief for my sweet tooth. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
| A Quiet Night In After the excitement that was yesterday's unexpected mould remediation, I have just taken this evening after work to relax, and nothing is quite as relaxing as sitting down with an old favourite of mine, Kingdoms Two Crowns. A brilliantly simple sidescroller, where you play a king, or queen, managing your kingdom, riding from one end of the island you are on to the other, collecting tribute and building your castle. All the while, relaxing music plays during the day, and greed physically attacks your lands at night in the form of monsters called the greed. The only games I could play that are more relaxing are Minecraft and Stardew Valley. I would then round off the list with Coffee Talk and Surviving Mars. So I guess now, I have given you all an unintended top 5 games of mine. So to make sure the order is clear: (1) Minecraft (2) Stardew Valley (3) Kingdom Two Crowns (4) Coffee Talk (5) Surviving Mars A Pin to Come Back To Coffee Talk is a game that I will elaborate on more in the future since it has got a story that is much more easily talked about than everything else on this shortlist. So stay tuned for that when I have a little more time to write as I am fast approaching midnight again. Memento Mori, KS ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** |
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