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Logocentric (adj). Regarding words and language as a fundamental expression of an external reality (especially applied as a negative term to traditional Western thought by postmodernist critics). Sometimes I just write whatever I feel like. Other times I respond to prompts, many taken from the following places: "The Soundtrackers Group" "Blogging Circle of Friends " "Blog City ~ Every Blogger's Paradise" "JAFBG" "Take up Your Cross" Thanks for stopping by! |
"Blog City ~ Every Blogger's Paradise" | Day 3167 Prompt ▼ I don't believe that #2 has ever applied to me since I've always had to work... ask me when I'm retired in 25+ years and I'll let you know how I feel about it then! The other eight comments I've experienced at one time or another, and I find them all annoying for a variety of reasons. I guess the "back in my day" and "I just want what's best for you" are probably the least annoying because they involve someone contextualizing their experience or emphasizing that, whatever was said was done with good intentions. I don't really fault people for either of those things unless they veer into the territory of the next group of comments... I get annoyed with the number of times older people seem to use it, but hey, nothing wrong with a little nostalgia for the past. The ones that annoy me are the ones where there's an implied condescension. "Oh, you're still doing that?" and "We never did things that way..." and "Are you sure you want to eat that?" imply that the person you're addressing is wrong in their choices, but the person making the comment doesn't have the courage to actually directly disagree; they just want to passive aggressively let it be known that they disapprove of your choice. By far, the ones I am most annoyed by are "That's not how we raised our children" and "I was just joking." "That's not how we raised our children" isn't just annoying to me; it's personally offensive. Unless I'm specifically asking you for advice on how to raise my children or I'm doing something that violates some law or major moral standard, asserting that my parenting choices would not be your parenting choices is not a piece of information that I'm particularly interested in knowing. I don't really care if you think my kids go to bed too late, or get too much screen time, or are encouraged in a behavior that you personally find undesirable in children. And, statistically speaking, you're unlikely to have raised perfect children yourself, so I think most parenting choices can be filed away as "matter of opinion" or "doing their best" and deserve considerable deference from the rest of us. Again, assuming we're not talking about something illegal or harmful to the children. But even the "condescending parent" dynamic pales in comparison to the "I was just joking" excuse. While there are certainly times when you're trying to make a joke and it doesn't come across and you have to clarify that humor was intended, I think this excuse is far more often applied as a way of glossing over or excusing someone who wants to say something that's just plain critical or mean. I've seen this excuse used by significant others, colleagues, family members, etc. and I'd guess that maybe ten percent of the time it's an earnest, "Sorry, I meant for that to be funny and I guess it didn't come across that way." The other ninety percent of the time? It's a flimsy excuse to say, "That insensitive thing I just said? Just get over it already." If you want to tease, insult, or hurt someone, at least have the guts to do it without then gaslighting the recipient by claiming that it's humor that they're too sensitive to appreciate. All of these sayings are annoying, but I think the "I was just joking" is actually a damaging, hurtful thing to say on top of being annoying. (585 words) |
"Blogging Circle of Friends " | Day 3556 Prompt ▼ On July 20, 1969, my mom and dad were 16 and 18, respectively. They wouldn't meet for another few years, wouldn't get married until 1975, and I didn't come along until 1981... so no, I definitely did not see the coverage of the moon landing on television as it was happening. Had I been alive at the time, I imagine I would have been glued to the television with rapt attention. Space exploration and the possibilities of what might be out there in our own solar system, let alone galaxy, let alone the whole big universe have always been something that have resonated with me, and I have a feeling that seeing that first "small step for man, giant leap for mankind" would have been something that, to me, hinted at endless possibilities going forward. I wonder what I would have thought at the time if, after the amazement and wonder of that accomplishment in 1969, I had known that the next humans to set foot on the moon would be Apollo 17's Gene Cernan and Harrison Schmitt just a few years later in 1972... and then that would be the last visit to the moon (let alone anywhere else beyond the International Space Station) by any human being for at least the next fifty years, I think I would have been really surprised and more than a little disappointed. For a lot of us, I imagine the accomplishment of putting a person on the moon was the first of what would be a long line of accomplishments in space, and the idea that it could have instead been a high water mark or the pinnacle of what we could accomplish in space would probably be pretty disappointing. As someone who thinks the idea of space exploration and interstellar travel are fascinating and something that I hope will one day become a reality, I think seeing a man land on the moon would be a revelation. But as that same person who thinks the idea of space exploration and interstellar travel are fascinating and something that I hope will one day before a reality, I think I'd also be all the more disappointed by the lack of progress we've made since. (377 words) |
"Blog City ~ Every Blogger's Paradise" | Day 3155 Prompt ▼ I'm going to skip over the obvious ones (my childhood home, my elementary through high schools, etc. ... all of which are still around, as it happens), and focus on some more obscure places that hold strong memories for me. Flathead Lake (Polson, Montana). For most of my childhood, my grandparents owned a home right on Flathead Lake in Montana. We'd go up to visit for a couple weeks every summer, usually staying in the boathouse right next to their dock which allowed them to launch their motorboat directly into the water. We had a lot of small-scale family reunions at that house, and a lot of memories of fishing, water-skiing, jumping off the dock, and family game nights around the dining room table. Unfortunately, both of my grandparents have passed away and they sold the place long before that when they realized they were getting older and couldn't keep the place up. On a whim, I looked it up a few months ago and the subsequent owners have completely changed the place; from the photos I saw online, there are very few original touches that remind me of the house that I spent so many summers at while I was growing up. Zuma Beach (Malibu, California). This is where my wife and I got married, at a restaurant right on the sand. And obviously the day itself is a special memory, but in the years since it's also where we spent our first anniversary (where I had them recreate a table from our reception down to the floral arrangements and table decor), and it survived a very scary fire season where it was truly a miracle the place survived because literally everything around it burned in a wildfire a few years back. Gare du Nord (Paris, France). The first international trip my wife and I ever took was to Spain, but we were traveling with my cousins who had traveled internationally before, and we stayed with my cousin-in-laws parents who were teaching abroad in Spain, so we kind of had travel guides the entire time. The following year, we traveled on our own to the United Kingdom and, on a whim, I booked a night away in Paris. We took the train from London and I distinctly remember stepping off the train in Paris, our first foreign country on our own that didn't speak English. Getting to our hotel and around was an adventure, but we both still remember the excitement and newness of the experience. Edmund D. Edelman Children's Courthouse (Los Angeles, California). Our family spent almost three years coming and going to this courthouse month after month while we were fostering and eventually petitioning to adopt our kids. I still vividly remember all of the drives up to the city, the days spent sitting waiting to get your case called in front of the judge, the meetings conferring with our kids' attorney asking them to explain what happened during the hearing to us in plain English. Ultimately we ended up adopting our kids so the memories are a little less painful than if we hadn't gotten to adopt them, but this place is such a vivid memory for me. The Walt Disney Studios Lot (Burbank, California). This is where my office is currently located, so it's definitely still around. Before I started my job at Marvel Studios, I had worked for various entertainment companies, but they were always in general office buildings. If there weren't movie posters on the walls, those offices could have just as easily been confused with those of the law firm on the floor above us, the medical billing company on the floor below us, etc. But when I started a job on Disney's studio lot in Burbank, it felt like I was working for a movie company. On my lunch breaks, I could walk by soundstages and the prop warehouse. All around the lot are monuments to the content that made Disney famous: the senior executive office building has all seven of Snow White's dwarves holding up the roof; our office building has the Disney Archives located on the ground floor and they always have some kind of memorabilia on display; our post facilities with edit bays and screening rooms are everywhere; and, every once in a while, they'll actually shoot something on the lot and will park all the trailers and supply trucks nearby. Every time I go into the office, it's a reminder that I get to make movies for a living, and it's really special. (756 words) |
"Blogging Circle of Friends " | Day 3543 Prompt ▼ I think I do tend to read more during the summer than at any other time of the year (except maybe the end of the year), but that's probably mostly due to the fact that summer is more leisurely in general. Work is usually slow as people take family vacations, the kids are off school and not following as strict a schedule; there's just more time for fun activities, and I almost always have a book with me because I read for fun. I do have a big push toward the end of the year to finish my reading goals as well, but year after year, my highest reading output does tend to be June through August. It's also the time of year that I tend to do more guilty pleasure reads, which are books I can breeze through quickly compared to something that's a little more dense or complicated. Case in point, I usually aim to read about four books a month... and because of that, often find myself slacking off for a bit at the beginning of the month, then pushing hard during the second half of the month to meet my reading goals. But less than a week into July, and I've already finished two books and am well on my way to finishing a third. I guess there really is something to this summer reading volume thing. I don't have a favorite author per se... or even a genre. I go through phases where I'll be really into science fiction, then I'll get onto an action/thriller kick for a while, before transitioning back to fantasy, and then maybe mysteries. And scatter some nonfiction in between. At the moment, I think my favorite authors are probably Blake Crouch and Patrick Rothfuss and Joe Abercrombie (for science fiction/fantasy), Gregg Hurwitz and Mark Greaney and Michael Connelly (mystery/thriller), and Adam Grant and C.S. Lewis for nonfiction. (320 words) |
To qualify for my Watch List every month, the following has to be something that I've watched that's new to me. It doesn't necessarily have to be a current show, but it can't be reruns or rewatches of something I've already seen. So if I'm including it in this list, it means this month is the first time I've watched it. I'll put "DNF" (Did Not Finish) next to anything that I stopped watching and have no immediate plans to finish. Movies Boss Baby: Back In Business Ferrari (DNF) Hit Man Inside Out 2 Next Gen Television FBI (Season 1) FBI (Season 2) FBI (Season 3) FBI (Season 4) FBI (Season 5) Hacks (Season 3) The Legend of Vox Machina (Season 1) The Legend of Vox Machina (Season 2) Selling the OC (Season 3) X-Men '97 My wife continued to binge-watch the procedurals this month (five seasons of FBI in one month!), and then I had to take a break and start watching some other stuff, so I got caught up on a few other shows that I've been meaning to watch. On the television side of things, I'm really hard-pressed to pick a favorite. Hacks is such a smart show, and Season 3 definitely didn't disappoint; especially the cliffhanger they left the end of the season on. But I think I loved The Legend of Vox Machina (an grown-up animated show based on the Campaign One of the hit online live-play D&D campaign from Critical Role) might have been even better. Bringing the exploits of that campaign to life and imagining things through the lens of animation was really, really fun. But from a pure nostalgia and professional pride perspective, I think my favorite show would have to be X-Men '97, an animated show we've been working on for months, and that continues where the very popular Saturday morning cartoon series left off. I didn't watch nearly as many movies as television this month, and in general they were pretty forgettable. Especially Ferrari which I didn't even get through because it was so slow. But Inside Out 2 was surprisingly great, and I think I might have enjoyed it more than my kids. The new "grown-up" emotions were a great complement to the original five. And the way they depicted anxiety and the way it can both protect you as well as completely consume you was really well done. I honestly saw a lot of myself in the way the emotions interplayed in the movie and it was a great follow-up to the first film. TOP PICK: Inside Out 2 |