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Where?

Where do I go from here? My wife wants to try for a second child. I'm really concerned that the stress is just going to get worse and that could cause the end of us. On the other hand not trying is going to cause it's own set of stress.

I do want a second child but just not sure now is the right time. But I've no idea when the right time might be. It's possible that in 2 years my salary may mean we could avoid my wife having to work which I think would make her a lot happier. It would mean me going back to fill time though.

We are kind of extending/renovating our house which is all getting a bit complicated trying to juggle the mortgage but once it's all done should hopefully result in lower monthly repayments if we can get the loan to value ratio correct. But until that is done it's hard to judge what our financial situation is really going to be like.

So is it wrong to try for a baby with someone who I'm not confident I'll still be married to in 5 years time?