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You know what is a terrible combination? An overachieving mother and a laid back do the minimum amount of work son - add to that the fact that your mother works at the school and hears every little thing you do wrong - mix in the fact that she just called about 20 people's kids to inform them that THEIR kids were slackers -- it's not a pretty outcome. Don't get me wrong - I'm glad my son isn't as anal i was/am about perfection - but really? really? couldn't he just fake it once in awhile? I know you are wondering what he did or didn't do wrong - well, too bad i'm not going to tell you because i don't want a thousand emails telling me i expect to much - BECAUSE I DON'T. Trust me, I want to expect more. I've been rational and realized he is his own person and has his own abilities and goals - I've accepted it - (without counseling i might add) BUT i am here to guide somewhat -- it's not a damn free for all. Again, don't misunderstand -- i know he's a great kid, i am truly blessed - i have more fun with him than anyone in the world. He is exactly what i prayed my whole life for -- but TODAY well i am frustrated at the little toot. ohhhhhh i don't think i'm going to enjoy the teenage years too much. Okay - i've vented. Thank you oh wait one more thing -- i really wanted to go out to eat tonight and now we can't because i sure can't let him think that hey lets go out to eat and celebrate the fact that he is frustrating the living hell out of me. SO NOW I HAVE TO COOK --- life is not fair. pfffftttt |