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Printed from https://writing.com/main/books/action/view/entry_id/575802
Rated: 13+ · Book · Biographical · #1317094
Enga mellom fjella: where from across the meadow, poems sing from mountains and molehills.
#575802 added March 26, 2008 at 1:54pm
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Under the influence of being an asshole (black and blue)
This is my black-and-blue response to "Invalid EntryOpen in new Window. by objurgate for "Follow the Leader"  Open in new Window. by mood indigo Author Icon

Five ways in which I can be an asshole:

1.

When I assume that everyone is motivated by the same things that move me, I can fail to honor that person's individual identity.

2.

When I say something out of pain or lash out in anger, I hurt someone else in return. I continue the unhealthy cycle.

3.

When I take umbrage at what someone else has said, assuming it was said to personally hurt me, responding negatively when I should just shrug it off.

4.

When I think I'm brilliant; when I want to toot my own horn. Not because that is a bad idea and not because I can't be utterly brilliant, but because the world truly doesn't care. If I can except that, my response to their lack of response won't be so whiny.

5.

When I wear a mask thinking no one can see right through it.

objurgate finishes with:

How many of you are drunk? Because I know I am.

Well, I never drink. But that doesn't make me better or worse as a person ... just sober. When I am an asshole, I don't even have the excuse of being drunk.

I have two responses to this prompt. This is my black-and-blue mildly bruised follow-the-leader follow-up (yes, I'm HSP = highly sensitive person). My red-and-black rant back at the original prompt is found here: "Red-and-black rant: under the influence of being an assholeOpen in new Window. in my [GC] rated Hoarfrosts from Hell blog.

This is my 16th response for FTL.

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My previous entries:

1. "Crying childrenOpen in new Window. Circle round in adoration
2. "Gone, fishingOpen in new Window. Old tin bucket
3. "How I behave around different peopleOpen in new Window. In five part disharmony; also in "Friendship and familyOpen in new Window.
4. "Level 28 Blood Elf HunterOpen in new Window. Letter from Kwn
5. "Hobo stewOpen in new Window. Sopa
6. "She wants to know if I'm lostOpen in new Window. Anemones
7. "Thirteen ways of looking at a blank pageOpen in new Window. Counting back from 13
8. "Sarcasm dripping from most of its wonderful crevicesOpen in new Window. Me Attitude
X. "And they paved paradiseOpen in new Window. ... me very own lead entry ... *Laugh*
9. "This time last yearOpen in new Window. March any year
10. "Well whaddya know?Open in new Window. Well whaddya know?
11. "Bonus (Bones, Bones R Us, Us Bones)Open in new Window. ... for Shannon's "Bonus".
12. "Easter isn't really about bunniesOpen in new Window.
13. "Birthdays and Boundaries, What a Bonus!Open in new Window. Birthdays and boundaries
14. "Zany SchemesOpen in new Window. Birth and Death of Dreams
15. "Not only did I fall off the deskOpen in new Window. Making a fool of myself

Kansas: 50º and anticipating storms.
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