Love’s ups and downs…

We hear a lot of people say that love is full of pain and suffering but we can’t ignore the fact that loving someone and knowing that person reciprocate your feelings is truly a happy thing.



Like any other thing in the world, love also has its own ups and downs. In my opinion, the feeling of love is at its peak when the guy is still courting you. This will be time where he attends to your every needs, shower you with gifts and surprises and show you that you will be happy with him since nobody will treat you better and love you more than he does. Of course, us girls tend to prefer romantic and sweet guys thus falling in love since they make us feel loved which is very important to us.



After accepting them by saying yes, things will slowly change. First, we wouldn’t notice it much but slowly all that they did for us before will slowly fade away. We would think that they should be thankful that we agreed to go out with them but they seemed to be assured that they already got us and wouldn’t leave them. By this time, the table has been turned around. We, the girls, are the one who is looking for their attention and time. We became insecure because of the lack of everything including love thus making us sad and be in a daze. After a while, thing will go out of proportion. We would have fights here and there even for the smallest things and somewhere along the way, one will fall out of love or be so tired of everything that the relationship has nowhere to go but down thus ending up in a break up.This is where my favorite saying comes in, “If something or someone reached its peak, then there is no where else to but down.”



Don’t fret though, some managed to keep it going to ups and downs by making their relationship exciting and surprising by doing something unusual thus not falling in the routinely schedule of their daily lives. So, even if love had disappointed us before over and over again, it is still worth looking for because it can give you the feeling of belonging and joy that no one else can give you.



Love is part of life and just like life it is a cycle in its own way.