Respectful behavior required for Guys

I am writing this essay as part of a punishment for extremely disrespectful behavior towards a lady. This was a failure of discipline and resulted in a severe punishment. Unfortunately for me, the lady decided that it was necessary to also cut off contact.
The purpose of this assignment is to explain why it is necessary for boys to show proper respect to ladies of all form. I will use as a counter example, my recent behavior. And unfortunately, I have been directed to speak to some of the specifics of my improper behavior. There were rather severe consequences. I earned a physical punishment as well as being given this essay to write.
Speaking in general terms. Most boys have a hard time recognizing situations where they need to exercise discretion and show respect. I have a strict disciplinarian who encourages me to correspond with other ladies. She encourages me to engage with ladies who are strict with their husbands or boyfriends. My disciplinarian feels that my behavior when interacting with others is a direct reflection on the discipline and training she applies. When I do not rise to her expectations, I will find myself receiving punishments.
She expects me to address her respectfully. I am to always refer to her as ma'am. This is to set the tone for our interactions. In her eyes, I am just a boy and using these terms emphasizes my position. She expects me to use the proper term of respect for any lady that I interact with. They preferred to be called something besides ma'am, I must ask what it is that they wish to use to address them. I have made several mistakes in the past with forms of address and they have resulted in very painful their bottom Spankings from my disciplinarian.
It should go without saying that a boy in my position should not use disrespectful language in the presence of a lady. The use of curse words or crude words considered behavior that merits punishment.
In the case of my disciplinarian, this is one of the worst forms of disrespect. You can be sure that I have received a number of harsh strokes of a switch and lexan rod. She is also quite fond of using a disciplinary hairbrush to make her point. Naturally, these physical punishments are always delivered to a bare bottom.

In this specific case district lady had asked me to describe a fantasy that I had. Unfortunately, I was far off the mark from what interested her and I submitted the following statement: “I was thinking of you standing there telling me that is I was a good boy and took a proper spanking that might let me give you a good hard fucking.” You can be sure that she considered this to be most disrespectful. And she made it quite clear that it was inappropriate for me to ever think about this. She suggested I reevaluate my priorities and thought it best to cut off any further contact. Naturally, I did provide an apology, and told her I clearly deserved to feel some consequences for this misbehavior. While she accepted that apology, she was not moved to to further communicate with me.

My disciplinarian, of course, was horrified. Without going into the specifics, I can assure you that this naughty boy paid quite a penalty for this significant error of judgment. I can assure you that the memory of that ass beating will certainly stay with me.

The main point is not the specific case of my misbehavior. Those consequences were thoroughly dealt with. What is the larger point is that a boy must always be respectful and never make assumptions.