He calls it a date ,I don't.

I REMEMBER WELL THAT IT WAS WINTER AND I WORE A FULL SLEEVED HOODIE.MY LONG HAIR WERE TIED IN A FISH TAIL. I ALSO APPLIED KOHL THAT DAY.SINCE I HIT PUBERTY KOHL AND A GOOD HAIR -DO IS SOMETHING I DO OCCASIONALLY. TODAY EVEN IF I APPLY KOHL OR MY HAIR ARE PROPERLY DONE ,PEOPLE AROUND ME NEVER FAIL TO PREDICT THAT THERE IS SOMETHING SPECIAL ABOUT THE DAY . SO THAT DAY I DID THE SAME. AND THE OCCASION WAS THAT MY CHILDHOOD SCHOOL FRIEND , MY CRUSH DURING SCHOOLING (SHHHHH…)ASKED ME OUT. I WAS IN FIRST YEAR OF MY COLLEGE AND HE DROPPED AN YEAR FOR PREPARING FOR JEE FROM SOME INSTITUTE IN CHANDIGARH.LET ME TELL YOU HE WAS ALSO CRUSHING ON ME SINCE 7TH STANDARD.BUT IT LEADS US TO NOWHERE DURING SCHOOL BECAUSE HE WAS SHY AND WANTED TO BE IN GOOD BOOKS OF TEACHERS. SO DURING SCHOOL WE DIDN’T DO ANYTHING WHICH COULD ANYHOW INVITE US SOME TROUBLES. HOWEVER I WAS A BIT FRUSTRATED BACK THEN BEACUSE PEOPLE AROUND ME WERE GETTING COMMITED AND I ON THE OTHER HAND CRAVE FOR JUST A CONVERSATION DESPITE KNOWING THAT HE ALSO LOVES ME. SO SCHOOL ENDED AND I WAS STILL SINGLE. BUT AS SOON AS HE WAS OUT OF THE SCHOOL I DISCOVERED THE OTHER SIDE OF HIM WHICH WAS NOT SHY AND WAS TOTALLY BOLD LIKE HELL.WE STARTED CHATING ON PHONE. BUT THERE WAS A CHANGE IN ME ALSO . NEW COLLEGE , NEW PEOPLE MAKE ME FORGET HIS ABSENCE. I DIDN’T MISS HIM . I HAD A NEW CRUSH TOO ( I SAW HIM IN MY SCHOOL FIRST).SO TECHNICALLY I WAS OVER HIM. BUT HE SEEMED TO LOVE ME EVEN MORE.SO HE WAS HOME FOR A WEEKEND AND ASKED ME FOR MEETING HIM.
I IMMIDIATELY SAID YES AFTETALL WE WERE CHILDHOOD FRIENDS FIRST. AND WE MET AT “JOY”. ALTHOUGH I WAS MEETING A FRIEND YET I WAS NERVOUS , SHY, HAPPY AT THE SAME TIME. WE SAT OPPOSITE TO EACH OTHER. I WASN’T ABLE TO MAKE AN EYE CONTACT. AND HE DUMBO ON THE OTHER HAND WAS EVEN MORE NERVOUS. AND IN THE NERVOUSNESS HE FORGET ( AS HE CLAIMS NOW) TO ASK ME AND HE HIMSELF ORDERED TWO BLACK COFFEES. BLACK COFFEE HELL YEAH!! I DON’T LIKE .BUT THEN I DIDN’T EVEN UTTERED A SINGLE WORD AND GULPED IT DOWN BARELY TASTING IT. HE CALLS IT ” OUR BLACK COFFEE DATE”. AND I KEEP CORRECTING HIM THAT IT WASN’T A DATE. FOR ME IT WAS THE FIRST TIME I EVER HUNG OUT WITH A GUY. AND WHEN I ASK HIM WHY HE ORDERED BLACK COFFEE HE SAID EVEN HE DON’T LIKE IT, INFACT IT WAS THE FIRST TIME HE TRIED IT.HE ORDERED BECAUSE IT SOUNDS GOOD AND LEAVES A GOOD IMPRESSION WHEN YOU ORDER BLACK COFFEE INSTEAD OF REGULAR COFFEE . AND I AM LIKE COMEON MAN YOU WEREN’T MEETING ANY ENTREPRENEUR. YOU COULD HAVE IMPRESSED ME MORE BY JUST BEING YOURSELF. WELL OUR COFFEE DATE( HIS VERSION ENDED SOON AND I KEPT THIS MEMORY PRESERVED IN MY PERMANENT MEMORY.AND THE CURRENT SCENARIO IS THAT HE STILL LOVES ME AND I DON’T. THIS THING LEADS TO DESTRUCTION OF OUR FRIENDSHIP TOO.BUT ANYWAY I STILL CHERISH MY FIRST OFFICIAL HANG OUT WITH A GUY.

Date, coffee