Veron
Veron Dumehjian is my personal
symbol of perseverance. Taken from her home before the age of ten and
put through insufferable physical and emotional trauma, Veron takes
her circumstances and makes the most of them. With her innermost
thoughts put to paper by her son, David Kherdian, Veron's story of
loss and triumph completely dismantled the way I viewed the world and
reshaped it into my current lens.
I initially read this book upon
the recommendation of my history teacher, as the book itself is an
account of the Armenian genocide of 1914. However, after studying the
book, I found myself rather fascinated with the main character, Veron
Dumehjian. She, even as a small child, displayed enough maturity to
understand her situation within the Middle East, and understand what
being an Armenian meant in this time period. However, instead of
renouncing her religion and culture to survive, as many did, she and
her family marched through the desert to die instead of adopting
Islam. While in an orphanage in Syria, an offer was put forward to
anyone who had the desire to go to England and continue with her
education. Veron did not leave. Rather, she remained with cruel
extended family members in order to see her grandmother and aunt once
again. Why? To Veron, piecing her family back together and her
culture were more essential than her own intellectual curiosity.
At the finale of The Road
from Home, I had an epiphany: if Veron could survive Cholera in a
refugee camp, I could survive another four-hour-long winter guard
rehearsal without complaining like a spoiled brat. If Veron could
withstand genocide, I could withstand anything. A previously unknown
perspective graced me: the ability to "take things in stride". I
am very much a perfectionist, so moving past personal blemishes is
difficult for me. Upon reading The Road from Home, however, I
grew to realize that nothing I have struggled with can approach the
magnitude of what Veron went through, and if Veron could not only
survive but remain faithful and strong and courageous and kind,
surely I could do the same.
The concept of family is one
that I used to take for granted innumerable times prior to my reading
of The Road from Home, as Veron herself often did before the
deportation. But as her family slowly disappeared, both Veron and I
began to see our family in a new light. Veron's mother, sister,
brother, uncle, father, and friends perished right before her very
eyes, and if I superimposed myself into Veron's place, I may have
gone insane. Veron, on the other hand, remained steadfast in her
beliefs. I truly admire her level of conviction, even if her beliefs
differed from me.
The education system at my
school, and quite possibly the entire county, is fundamentally
flawed. I have almost completed high school, and no mention beyond
the recommendation of a book by one history teacher has been made of
the Armenian Genocide, and while I have had the pleasure of Veron's
experiences to educate me, this bloody and pointless event where over
one million parents, spouses, children were massacred in the worst
fashion, is not taught. This may be more devastating that the
genocide itself. Part of the reason I wish to major in International
Relations is because of the influence Veron's story had on me.
Veron is a
testament to conviction and tenacity in countless ways. Her loyalty
to her culture, family, and beliefs affected me in ways I have yet to
understand.
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