Have you ever

As a young woman i have tried to be fun, and appealing to the opposite sex. I take care of myself and work hard. But for some reason, I keep getting the same escuse, "You Scare me" and not in a creepy way just that I'm intimidating! Intimidating, that's just a way out, I am 5foot 4 130lbs and I wouldnt hurt a fly so how in the world am i intimidating?? And why do guys just keep picking up the same girls in the same places and end up being left or hurt because their not with the right woman, I'm not saying im the right woman im just saying, that i could be. but they wont even come up to me,