If your seeking answers

Happiness depends on loving honouring and obeying your parents -- its that simple.
But obey them with skill not power. Love them in spitie of their faults. Honour them regardless of what they were.

Your parents programmed you and set your limits, parameters. never go outside those limits never rebel.

It is very difficult if not impossible to achieve what they wanted for your life with effort and might and power and force and energy; but it is possible to achieve what they wanted you to with skill and precision.

God or the maker of the universe, the supporter and sustainer of all life, is a wave that flows from where your at to highest possible precision.

To use this wave you must catch it like a surfer catches a wave.

The only way to catrch it is to seek to increase the skill in your life to above average -- this includes mental skill and feeling skill as well as physical.

The two main ways are called Prayer and Dreaming.
Prayer is to relentlessly question your own work-creations or sexual creations. Attack what you believe ferociously and tear it apart. Find what is superfluous and get rid of it, for the truth is what is necessary. Re-state your creation in a new form. Then attack it again. This is a refining process -- whatever is left is pure truth -- your increasing skill by this method.
Always doubt and never accept anything at face value. This a war to find the truth.

Dreaming is to understand dream symbolizm. It is to be able to tell when your dreams are telling you the truth and when they are lying. If your life is a lie your dreams will lie.


You divide your attention between force and precision whenever you do anything. Thus there are only two ways of making sense out of life: compare all events to the most powerful event you can imagine, or compare all events to the most precise event you can imagine.
Most people think only the use of effort can get rewards and meet goals in life, but the true method is to achieve goals with skill.

What is the most emotionally intense part of your life? The positive part, not intense emotions like hate or other.

You must seek a precise goal there and repeat the precise act as much as possible. Then you catch the wave and one thing will lead to another and you will achieve impossible things.
Dream the impossible dream and reach the unreachable star. I did it and you can too.
Also do not follow any religion.
Love God.
All follows from loving God. God is general vital and precise. All pettiness is gone if we love God.