Babies change lives.

                   Baby’s change lives.......

It was Three years back when I got married. I felt like hell. My family forced to marry a girl of there choice. I really was feeling bad on my first night. But taking it as my destiny I was getting ready to admit it. But I found that the girl I got married was not at all interested in me. Instead, she was so angry from my small room and a little old bed and even the size of my house. Her eyes always trying to ask me, “Where the hell have you brought me stupid!”

Later when I went to her house I figured out the reason behind my wife’s irritating behavior. Actually she had a big house in comparison to mine. And her room was much spacious than our room. But that was not my mistake. She or her mother should have enquired about such facts. Afterall these things can’t be hidden. Anyway, The second time I started to admit my destiny that I have been married to a rich girl. Ofcouse in comparison to me that is. But this was just the start of my admittance.

My wife was still unhappy, even on our honeymoon trip, as if she could not digest her new place and people. I tried my level best but can’t make it. Then one day I found that she had some missed calls on her mobile and a few messages accompanying them.  I being a little possessive and traditional got so angry that I asked her for explanations. She explained that it was her close relative and a so-called brother was sending her, and she had nothing to do as I was thinking.
This was my third admittance about my destiny, that I am married to an open-minded girl. I again gathered strength and started to move ahead. Now we were starting to make up with each other. But this time it was my parents creating problem. My younger brother told my parents that the new couple always fight with each other due to them, and they don’t like there company. So they started avoiding me. I was given less importance, less love, lesser care. Was it because I married according to their wishes?

This was my fourth admittance about my destiny that my family has left me alone. But between all bad news there was good news that I was going to become a father. Again, it was the start of one another problem. My wife’s nature got so irritating then before. And reason given by the doctor was her pregnancy made her impatient. I saw many movies how people take care of their wife’s health. So being inspired from them I tried to offer her milk and other beneficial food items. But she used to throw them away. All the nine months I have to control my anger, just because in return I was going to get my family back or I should a new family with my kid.

And the day comes, when my daughter opened her eyes in this world. It was worldly experience. I forgot all my past sorrows. For the first time in my life, I was thinking that I got everything after marriage. It took all night to make my baby sleep for first few days. But after a week or so my baby started sleeping on the right time. For the first time my wife started asking for things like nappy pads, diapers, baby oil etc. And with that I was feeling like a real husband. My daughter gave my sinking marriage life a to stand and then to prosper. My parents started bringing various things for my child. My younger brother started calling home just to hear baby’s voice. And what else do I need more. Things started looking up. My wife started cooperating with me. And now she was more adjustable with my house than before.

If it had not been for my kid, my life would have been destroyed.