\"Writing.Com
*Magnify*
SPONSORED LINKS
BY ONLINE AUTHORS
Printed from https://writing.com/main/profile/notebook/cococruz
Please follow an 18+ rating.*


Here are some things to check out to help you get acclimated:
"Writing.Com 101" Open in new Window.
"Noticing Newbies" Open in new Window.
"Information For Writing.Com Newbies" Open in new Window.
"MechGrammical" Open in new Window.
"Noticing Newbies Newsletter (November 4, 2020)" Open in new Window.

Everyone here is very helpful, so feel free to ask questions, anytime!
*Heartp* *Coffeev* Kindest Regards, Lilli *Coffeev* *Heartp*
So you see I was supposed to see the new spiderman movie with my partner, and we had to reschedule due to covid outbreaks. So we were going to go sometime during this month. After maybe 3 days they tell me they are going to go see the new movie today, so automatically I say "I thought we were supposed to watch it together?" and they said "We still can, ill just watch it again" and I just said no. because why would I want to go see the new movie with someone who has already seen it. I am not trying to argue with them so I just said that's fine. but they do know it upsets me a little bit. So is this valid? Don't get me wrong I am so grateful for them, and I love them dearly. But it did hurt my feelings a little bit. But if I keep expressing that then I am see as "Crazy". and not to make things sound worse but they didn't even seemed like they care. first they said "Well i'm sorry" and when i said its fine Ill just watch it with other people, they just said, "Ok". Am I jealous... that i don't get to hang out with them as much? I just don't get why I was So upset about it. I don't know.... so much for "The magic".
  •   2 comments
s  Author Icon
A relationship is about 2 people. Give and take.

For your own mental well-being, express how you feel and how you feel they let you down. Honesty is important as is airing, or else things fester and foment and it could become worse down the track.

In. My. Opinion.
Hey, I honestly had almost this exact same thing happen, and I get you! It was even a Marvel movie. It's totally valid that you're upset, because it's way more fun to experience a movie like that together the first time around with your partner, so you can both be excited and surprised and all the rest together. If your partner has already experienced it, then it's you experiencing it alone, even if they're there with you. Does that help you feel less crazy? Because them seeing it without you after you'd agreed to see it together means, in your relationship, you're both missing out. (In my humble opinion, anyway. My partner and I are together 30 CRAZY years on Jan 5 OMG.) So yeah -- talk to them about this. How you feel matters! Good luck! *Heart*
Image Protector
*Balloonp* Welcome to WDC! Great to see you posting your first items.

Periodically click on the MY ACCOUNT tab... and click Achievements as magics will show up in your community tab! *Wink*

eyestar
Image Protector
GROUP
WdC SuperPower Reviewers Group Open in new Window. (E)
Join the fun! We inspire reviewers through kindness and learning! Winner of eight Quills!
#1300305 by Maryann Author IconMail Icon
* Content and content ratings in this area are monitored solely by this member. Page owners have the ability to remove posts and/or block posters who do not follow the content rating or who post unwanted content. In addition, each member can block/ignore another member using the Block/Ignore Members" link on the Account Options screen.
Printed from https://writing.com/main/profile/notebook/cococruz