Heart and Soul

The soul,the heart of a human being requires a lot of love and attention from ourselves personally and from others that we call our friends and family. The people that are not there to support us drive us away from ourselves and promote a lot of healing and prosperous notions later down the road. The scars take a little to heal but hopefully we learn from our trials and tribulations. We as people tend to grow up and have our own morals and set of standards that believe is right but on the other hand there is those who are led by others and told to so things one way or the other.I do not think this is necessarily a good thing because then we are taught not to think for ourselves when it comes to bigger issues later on.We do not love ourselves therfore we cannot love other people or be satisfied with any particular task we do in life.Our situations turn into anger and pain because we do love ourselves fully.We make the statemant "Do onto others as we would want them to do to us". Perfectly true statemant but we could also say, "Love ourselves as we would want other people to Love us". Another perfectly true statement in my eyes.
When we are children we learn to love and appreciate everything just as it is. Everything is wonderful and full of love and enchantment. We think life is not fair because we cannot do grown up things and people always tell us what to do.But from every mistake, we learn and either get praised or put down for it,This is where we can get into trouble with ourselves later on down our adult path.There are no worries as children. We do not have bills to pay or even worry how to buy the house we always dreamed of.
As we get older we begin to develop our own ideas and morals,we begin to think for ourselves and want to experience new and exciting things. We become more of an individual then someone who is always trying to please or do the right thing for a praise or compliment.We tend to not let ourselves care what other people might think of us as we accomplish our goals and aspirations.We on the other hand also like praise so we may do things to please our parents or the ones we love so they accept us more and always so called make them proud. We sometimes tend to go the direction in our lives that other people want us to go instead of what is is the best for us. We become a person with many different masks that we put on for every new day just to please someone.Is that who we really are,of course it is not. We are who we want ourselves to become. We want what we think is the best for us and we love whom we want to love.We gid rid of negativity and the people in our lives that do not support us and condone what we want in our lives.We as a person meet the spouse that we want to be with us for the rest of our lives. Somebody who will love us unconditionally through the hardest of times and will be there to support our dreams and aspirations. They became our partner our confidant,our best friend. They share the fun times with us and are there until the end. They know more about us than anyone in the world except for maybe our parents as we grow up. They become our soul mate.our better half,and our inspiration
Life what is it and how do we know what to do with it. Life to me is what you believe in, your morals, your interest and the people you have around you that support and trust in you. You have to know yourself first before you can love anybody else. Life is full of trials and tribulations,many mistakes made but all lessons to learn from. We make mistakes, learn from them and move on to become a better individual.
I have learned alot about myself,goals and my reality at becoming a better person and I hope I can make a diffrence in anothers life.
My goals are,to become an inspirational leader,to make the most of my life,to have the greatest potential from life,to fullfill all my goals and dreams and to know or not to know if I have made the the right choices in my life.Some of these goals I have already figured out and some of them I will work on as I go through my life.I Have learned to take risks some of them I was scared to do on my own but with a soft push have learned I can achieve anything that I set my mind to. I learned there Is no try there is do and don't do.
My inspration for all of you:
Be positive-optimistic
Experience new things
Have fun;never be serious when you don't have to be
Learn and experience as much as you can
Try new things,new jobs
Be true,kind and supportive to others and myself
Never let anyone talk you into anything you don't want
Don't be manipulative
Listen,truly and communicate
Help others learn about themselves
Love and support family and friends
Meet new people
Get rid of negative people and situations in your life
Take Risks
Thank you so much for reading this and I hope all of you have a great Christmas and a New Year. Amy