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For Authors: March 11, 2015 Issue [#6871]

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 This week: Learning Curve
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About This Newsletter

Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.~~Benjamin Franklin

Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though sometimes it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and grieves which we endure help us in our marching onward.~~Henry Ford

I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it.~~Pablo Picasso

I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.~~Louisa May Alcott

Flying is learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss.~~Douglas Adams

Triumph is simply UMPH added to Try.~~Robin Moyer









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Been making lists all weekend. Decided to make one for my newsletter. So. The 8 of the things I've learned along the way at WdC and as a writer.

1. No matter how much you do know, or think you know; someone else will always know more. Learn from them! Wring every bit of knowledge out of them that they are willing to share. Appreciate the times you, yourself, are wrung dry.

2. You can't please everyone. Fact. Accept it. Just because X people give you five stars and someone else slams your work, don't let it get to you. Glean any useful comment they make, and shuffle the rest off to that place in the corner where you store the cracked bits of yourself from less than solid landings from pedestals, well chewed feet and other assorted oopses. Part of the joy in writing is that we fling our words out into the cosmos to have an effect on others. No one ever guaranteed a 'good' effect!

3. Dry spells. They happen. That blank mind that refuses to be coherent, the empty paper/screen that seems to lie/sit there cackling at you, that nothingness where all characters seem to have fled to some unknown realm. Often times accompanied by a soundtrack screaming: WARNING! WARNING! DEADLINE APPROACHING!! Douglas Adams once said, “I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.” A sense of humor is a vital part of being a writer. Think about other things. Write about your worst day ever for ten minutes. Go for a walk and get some fresh air blowing through your mind. The fogs always clear.

4. Rewrite, revise, edit. First drafts are never final copy. Give it some room to rest, moulder, rise, or fly. Then go back with fresh eyes and tweak the living daylights out of it! Repeat.

5. Never stop trying! Never, ever give up!

I think I was seven when I figured out that quote above.

My grandmother kept telling me I wasn't trying hard enough to climb a tree that I really wanted to climb. "Add some 'umph' to it, girl!" she shouted at me.I was afraid my hands would slip and I'd go splat on the boulders beneath that maple tree or that I'd fall into the water. There was only one branch down low ...about three feet over my head. I had to jump up to it, hang there and then get a foot up and pull myself onto the branch. All afternoon I kept trying. She wrapped gauze bandages around my hands. I remember telling her that maybe I should just wait until I grew taller. "Give up on this and you will give up on everything that is difficult. Try again," she said.

And I did. She had faith in me. I didn't want to let her down. I hadn't reached the thought that I shouldn't let myself down yet. FINALLY, I did it!

"Get down here and do it again," said my grandmother. And I did. Then I climbed to the very top of the tree, and my grandmother was right behind me. Together we sat in the topmost branches and watched the sun set over our mountain. I was so exhausted that I hardly even could appreciate that small victory. Sometime in the middle of the night, I woke up, went to her room and woke her up.

"I did it," I whispered.

"That you did," she replied. "Why that time and not the others?" she asked.

"I added the 'umph' I guess," was my answer. Then I got all excited about the umph/triumph thing.

I remember that when I get frustrated. When I don't win a contest. When I don't get an award. When a piece I'm writing doesn't seem to get where I want it to go. When I need to rewrite something ... again! When my words don't work. When I need a shot of 'umph!' From that day forward, I learned to always reach for the next higher branch.

6. Don't be afraid to 'act out.' As in act out a difficult scene. Get a friend or spouse to help you. Don't worry. You are a writer; they already know you are sorta crazy! My hubby came home from work one night and I asked him if he'd help me with a scene. I needed to kill someone and I had to figure out the best way to do it. It involved a hot cast-iron frying pan full of bacon grease/burned bacon, a scared rabbit of a young woman, her 6'2" abusive step-dad and her beat-up mom in a small kitchen.

I came around the corner numerous times, grabbing the heavy pan, flinging water all over the kitchen. My poor (but trusting) hubby had to pray I wouldn't slip and actually clock him in the back of the head with said skillet! We had to figure out 'how' he'd fall, 'where' he'd fall and in what position. I needed to know where/how the bacon grease would fly/drip/ burn the girl.

A neighbor, who regularly just comes in to the house walked in and turned on his heel to walk out, then turned around again reaching for me/the pan/his sanity. Hubby and I collapsed to the soaking wet floor laughing like the crazies we are, and eventually explained. Neighbor, being taller than hubby ended up being the intended victim. By later that evening, it was all over the neighborhood that I was trying to kill hubby with a frying pan! Too funny.

Here's the scene as it ended up. (Head's up! Swearing alert!)

Emily woke to the smell of bacon burning and the sound of screaming from two floors below. Grabbing her robe, she put it on as she ran down the stairs.

"Didn't I tell you to get your daughter to sign the house over to us? It's all her damn fault I spent the last few weeks cooling my heels in jail! Do you know what that's like? She thinks she can keep me out of my home? She's got another think coming, the worthless bitch!"

A sound of a fist hitting flesh and her mother's moan punctuated his previous comment.

Emily entered the kitchen to see her stepfather bending over her mother who lay slumped on the floor. Reaching for the first thing she saw, she grabbed the cast iron frying pan off the stove.

She never felt the hot metal handle searing her hands, nor the grease flying out of the pan as she raised it over her head and brought it down on the back of Nick's head. As he turned, a glazed look on his red and raging face, she swung the pan again.

"You God-damned son of a bitch! Leave my mother alone!"

Years of frustration, fear and anger let loose as the skillet connected again. Yet he didn't go down until he stepped in the bacon grease splattered on the floor. When he fell, his head hit the granite counter top and he went down.

Emily brought the pan down again; fear that he might get up kept her watching him for any sign of movement until she saw the blood seeping from the back of his head spreading out over the clean white tiles of the kitchen floor. Dropping the pan, and running to her mother, she noticed the way her mother sprawled on the floor, her neck bent at an impossible angle.



Doubt I ever could have gotten that scene quite right without play-acting it out!

7. Reviewing others' work is the best way to learn about what you can improve in your own writing! Always SO! much easier to find issues in someone else's writing, to see what works and what doesn't. The trick is to then use the reviewed pieces as a lens to look at what you write! What did they do that you admire and how might you apply it to your writing? What mistakes did they make that you do as well? Reviewing is a learning process that can help you as much as the one you review! That is the point after all. We all want to get better!!!

8. I've learned, or, perhaps, acquired a knowing that if we are to be the best we can ... at anything ... that we never stop learning, never stop seeking and we never stop striving to be better.


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Ask & Answer

First, one from a newsletter from quite a while ago ...
zoomsqrd Author IconMail Icon asks: I enjoyed your newsletter. It has been a long time since I have written anything I like to see how others organize their work as they are developing the story. I like how you do your research. I am going to try that for a couple cities my main character lives and some she passes through. Personally, I am a person who needs to have my ideas first in a notebook then I put some n 3 x 5 cards. Do you ever outline with more detail than you do now?

Hmmm, actually, aside from research, from which I will have copious notes specific TO that research verses say, the actual story, I have been plotting in my head. I've got the story worked out, the characters defined and when the muddle in my head moves to boiling from a simmer, I sit down and let it sill forth until I'm wrung dry.

oldgraywolf Author IconMail Icon says: On a slightly different note (as I used to be a unit cold weather instructor): Be careful of muscle strain, especially in the back; be careful of hypothermia (the body's internal temperature getting too low), and if someone seems sluggish, as them something that makes them think to answer (we used to ask them their service number), if they stumble over the answer or look blank, either get them inside, under the covers in their underwear, and someone else next to them to provide additional body heat, and give them something hot with sugar (like hot chocolate) to drink, but only if they're conscious, or get them to the ER; add a little extra salt to your meals, as snowy weather is dry weather, and dehydration is more common; avoid sweating when outside, if at all possible (dress in layers, too); and a sled makes hauling firewood much easier. Born in the Territory of Alaska, and spent most of my life in the north. Can't enjoy the snow anymore, because of nerve damage, but wish y'all good health and new insights. Stay safe.

Useful info this!

monty31802 writes: Sounds like our winter in Vermont, We have not seen above freezing weather for over a month and there is snow higher than my plow truck, Great News Letter.

Thanking you :)


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