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Spiritual: October 19, 2005 Issue [#666]

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About This Newsletter

Spiritual: relating to the spirit or soul and not to physical matter; intangible. Collins Dictionary and Thesaurus

This newsletter explores ideas of the spiritual nature that exists in each and every one of us in an open and non-judgemental manner.

Each editor brings to the newsletter their own backgrounds, experiences, beliefs and opinions. Whether you disagree, agree, doubt or applaud the views expressed, let us all show respect to each other. Together we can learn something about the many varied aspects of the spiritual self and enjoy our differences in true meaning of the Spirit of Community.

Enjoy! *Cool*


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Letter from the editor

Saying Goodbye


I really have no heart for this newsletter today. I have no idea to write, and writing itself is a chore. I am grieving the loss of my dear, sweet cat, Pudi.

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Rest in Peace


I thought there was in, no way, anything spiritual about my loss and the way I feel. But then I realised, having to say goodbye to a loved one--be it human or animal--is indeed a very deeply spiritual affair.

Regardless of your beliefs in a certain kind of afterlife or none at all, parting from a close friend and/or family member is devastating.

So as part of my spiritual wellness, I want to share some of the special things about Pudi. I believe it will help me remember the good times and ease the sadness.

I hope you'll forgive me for a somewhat unconventional newsletter this month. *Blush*

My first husband and I had only been married a month or so when we went kitten hunting. Pudi was at the SPCA, the youngest feline there and about six months old; kitten season was still a month away. I did not like tabby cats, she was short haired and 'old', but I fell in love with her anyway. There was no way I could leave her behind.

When my first husband died, Pudi became a lifeline. She knew when I was hurting, and would quietly come and sit with me, or curl up on my chest.

Early on, we found out she had a hormonal problem. This caused her to spray inside. You can imagine this was not the slightest bit pleasant, and yet I could not blame her. It was an illness, not naughtiness.

One of my most distressing times with Pudi was when a bee stung her paw. The poor, little girl ended up with a paw six times its normal size. In tears I phoned the after hours vet...and he laughed. *Shock*

She developed some funny habits. She would slip her teeth under my engagement and wedding rings and lift. She would nibble my knuckles and nose, and lick my eyes and cheek if I was too slow waking up to give her a pat in the mornings.

Pudi was the most scardiest cat ever! It took her a couple of months to accept my second husband around the house. But then she grew a deep and loving bond with him. Morning cuddles on his lap while he ate breakfast became a ritual for the pair of them.

She would bolt at the sound of any car in the driveway. She would inflict terrible, though accidental, wounds if you happened to be holding her when the doorbell rang or the front door opened. The rustle of a plastic bag or a tap on the window sent her careening to her favourite safe spot: behind the curtain, behind the sofa, in the far corner of the lounge.

"It's alright, Pudi" was a common croon around here, in the efforts to settle her nerves.

Conversely, I could fish obstructions from her mouth, put on a collar, or carry her into the car to go to the vet without any hassle. I knew she trusted me implicitly. The last time I took her to the vet, she sat on my lap as I drove...very carefully...the short distance. The same cat who did not like to be carried to the front door because she could be seen through the glass.

She was a playful cat, right up until the last two weeks of her life. She had three real-fur toy mice, which she would frequently hide when she became too over-excited. She loved her treats - cat vitamins and catnip. She didn't like cheap cat food, and ate ravenously when there was more sophisticated fare on offer. She caught live mice, lizards and birds, again until very recently. She would jump out of the lounge windows, but not in them.

She had personality, plus.

Thank you for indulging me at this time. I hope this reminds you of some special things about someone or some pet you love very deeply.

Special bonds make special memories.



Till next time;
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I hope these are not too heavy, but they suit my mood right now. But these reads deserve your attention, regardless. *Smile*

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Ask & Answer

Hello Puditat!
I am new to this newsletter, because I am searching for truths, and I have lost my faith.
Has anyone approached the question of why a kind higher being would allow awful things to happen, or let evil people get away with crimes and actually thrive? These are questions that have made me doubt in any higher being as I get older. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
schipperke


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Very well said. Please keep on saying it.
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Thank you! *Smile*

Gosh, it seems like forever since your last issue. I always look forward to seeing what you have to share - haven't been disappointed yet!
windac


((((Windac))))

Hi Puditat,

I read your last newsletter article on tragedy and found it to be very sensible and sensitive, not least encouraging. We all need to grieve and this was a lesson that I had to learn. When my mother died, many years ago now, I felt guilty about grieving so bottled it up. Very wrongly I thought I shouldn't grieve, after all she had gone to be with Jesus. It wasn't until a friend kindly prayed with me that I was able to feel a release and so grieved for her in a normal way.

This is a lovely newsletter to receive.

God Bless
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I'm so thrilled to hear you came to a place where you could grieve the loss. It is a natural and healthy process. I'm sorry for the loss of your mother. *Flower3*

Great issue, thanks for sharing your thoughts with us!
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You're welcome. *Smile*

Would like for a group member to look at my prayer. I am so depressed that sometimes I don't want to go on. Reading this last newsletter really helped. God bless you for sharing. Sucide would only hurt those that love me.
Diane
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I am so glad that you sent in feedback. It does help to share the burden. I have not heard from you for a while. I hope everything is okay.
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Great newsletter! Thanks, Puditat; this came at a time when I've been struggling with my faith, and has helped me a great deal. May thanks for writing this.
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I'm glad it helped Sara. *Smile* Be blessed!



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