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Spiritual: September 02, 2009 Issue [#3247]

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Welcome to the Spiritual Newsletter. I'm spidey Author Icon, and I'm your guest-editor this week. . My last Spiritual Newsletter gave some basics on Hindu wedding ceremonies, and this time I'd like to share my experience of attending one. *Smile*



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I was guest-editor for this Newsletter in July, and I wrote about an upcoming Hindu wedding ceremony I was attending with my husband. I listed some possible aspects of a typical Hindu ceremony, but I'd like to share my experience of this particular event. *Smile*

The ceremony started in the morning with the bride and groom splitting up. The bride's family and friends gathered in one area, while we were ushered outside with the groom and his family and friends. A beautiful and ornate archway was constructed in front of a side door to the hotel. We all gathered around it as the groom took part in rituals preparing him for the ceremony. The rituals included a few members of the bride's family as well as the Hindu priest.

After the rituals were complete, we all walked through the archway into the hotel. Personally, this part seemed particularly touching to me, as the groom's family and friends were participating in the ceremony rather than just observing. *Smile*

Next, we entered the ballroom where the main ceremony would take place. We sat in rows facing a large stage which was decorated beautifully, and we were given programs so we could follow along with the ceremony. Each one may differ, so this ceremony isn't an example of all ceremonies, but it gives you an idea of what one may be like.

The Hindu Wedding Ceremony

The Hindu wedding ceremony is a long and elaborate ceremony, with every step rooted in Vedic tradition, signifying various aspects of life that is to follow after the wedding. The mandap - a canopy or marriage stage - is decorated with flowers and with a fire as witness, the Hindu wedding ceremony begins.

Var Aagman (The Groom's Arrival)
The groom arrives for the wedding with his family and they are all greeted by the bride's family. The bride's mother then performs a welcoming ritual and leads the groom to the mandap.

Ganesh Pooja (Worshipping Lord Ganesh)
The wedding ceremony begins by offering a prayer to Lord Ganesh. Lord Ganesh is worshipped so he may remove all obstacles, blessing the bride and groom.

Kayna Aagman (The Bride's Arrival)
The bride is escorted down the aisle to the mandap by her maternal uncles upon arrival. The bride's father takes her hand and leads her into the madnap. The bride and groom are separated by the antarpat (curtain), which is lowered once the Mahraj (Priest) invokes a prayer for the couple.

Kanya Daan & Hastamilap (Giving Away the Bride)
In the Hindu religion, the Kanya Dann is considered the most significant offering a bride's parents make. The Kanya Daan symbolizes the bride in the form of Goddess Laxmi and the groom as Lord Narayana. Here the bride's family displays the act of giving.

Jaimala (Exchanging of garlands)
At this time, the bride and groom exchange fresh flower garlands, signifying the acceptance of one another and to pledge respect for one another as partners in life.

Mangalpheras (Circling of the Holy Fire)
During the Mangalpheras, the couple circles the holy fire four times with their wedding scarves tied together. The bride's brothers are also called in to participate in the ceremony. The four circles symbolize the four basic human goals of Dharma, Artha, Karma and Moksha.

          Dharma - Religion and Ethics
          Artha - Wealth and Prosperity
          Karma - Love, Fertility and Family
          Moksha - Spiritual Liberation and Salvation

Saptapadi (Seven Vows)
The bride and groom seek blessing from God as they take seven sacred vows together:

          1. We will respect each other.
          2. We will care for each other.
          3. We will be patient with each other.
          4. We will be honest and faithful to each other.
          5. We will be together in sorrow and in happiness.
          6. We will travel this journey of life with love & harmony.
          7. We will keep our family happy, healthy and strong.

Kansar Bhakshan (First Meal Together)
Kansar Bhakshan is the couple's first meal together. The bride and groom offer Kansar to one another to symbolize their union. Kansar is a sweet made from crushed wheat, sugar and ghee.

Mangal Sutra, Sindoor (Sacred Necklace)
The Mangal Sutra is a sacred necklace made from black beads that the groom ties around the bride's neck. This symbolizes their marriage. The groom then applies sindoor in the center-parting of the bride's hair as a promise to fulfill her every wish.

Akhand Saubhagyavati (Blessings)
Married women from the bride's family and the groom's family come and bless the bride by whispering "Akhand Saubhagyavati" in her ear, which means "Good luck, prosperity and a long happy life."

Ashrivaad (First Blessing as Husband and Wife)
The wedding has now concluded and the Maharaj, along with parents and elders of the bride and groom's families, offer blessings for a long and happy married life. The bride and groom bend down to touch the feet of the Maharaj and their family elders as a form mof worship known in the Hindu ceremony.

Vidai (Farewell to the Bride)
The Vidai is one of the most emotional parts of the ceremony. Now that the bride and groom are married, she bids farewell to her family. She throws a fistful of rice behind her shoulder wishing her childhood home happiness and prosperity.



What I found most striking about the ceremony was that during all of the above steps, the atmosphere of the ceremony remained lighthearted and joyous. The Hindu priest joked and laughed during some of the steps, while family and friends laughed along and applauded. While there was a definite feeling of reverence and sacredness, everyone wore smiles, too. It was a very happy occasion, too.

I'm very glad I took the opportunity to attend this event and learn about the sacred ceremony of another culture. I found it to be very inviting to non-Hindus, and I was happy to take part in the ceremony.

I'd also like to reiterate that the details listed above are in no way the "correct" way to perform a Hindu wedding ceremony, nor am I saying here that all ceremonies will be like this. This was just my experience at one ceremony. As with all religions and ceremonies, there are differences, customizations and variations.



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I received some good feedback on my last Spiritual Newsletter, which gave the basics of a Hindu ceremony (as I found in my research):

Ref: The couple then walk around the fire with the bride leading. (Some sources say they walk around four times, representing the four goals in life, Dharma (religious and moral duties); Artha (prosperity); Kama (earthly pleasures); and Moksha (spiritual salvation and liberation). Others claim seven cirlces around the fire.)

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As per Hindu law / Hindu Marriage Act, 1956, there are 7 steps around the fire. This is a basic requirement.

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Thanks for the information! *Smile*



Yuor disriprion of Hindu wedding is not correct. But it may be what you found on websites. You wouldn't know it first hand .
But I don't think in that case you should not be passing on the info like this.Just giving wesite-links would be more appropriate.
Talk to you soon,
Jaya H.
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My apologies if I was incorrect in any of my offerings. I did include links where I got the information, and I apologize if my newsletter offended or gave misinformation in any way. Hopefully this Newsletter offers more accurate descriptions, as it is offered from first-hand knowledge. *Wink* Thanks for your feedback!



I'm glad you wrote about a Hindu wedding ceremony! I'm a Hindu. I'm single, but have seen several ceremonies of family and friends. You're right that each one varies. Ceremonies are always colourful and meaningful. In most, the bride and groom exchange garlands, that's the moment at which they are 'married'. In my particular culture, the mother-in-law tweaks her new son-in-law's nose, to signify that he's her son now, too! There's lots more I could write, but this allows only 1000 characters! *Laugh* Sonali ~ THANKFUL SONALI Library Class! Author IconMail Icon

Thanks so much for your helpful feedback, and sharing your own experiences! *Bigsmile*

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