One Stop Erotica Shop!

Speaking of visits to sex shops and toys and the like, how do people feel about them?

I've heard a lot of guys feel insecure when a woman uses a toy in bed (especially if it's a large dildo or vibrator).

I've also heard of women who are intimidated to use a toy in front of a man, or who think viewing porn demeans women, etc.

Where do you stand on the "sexual aids" issue?

Personally, we don't use a lot of toys in bed. I have a hard time getting off with some mechanical thing whirring in the background. Then again, we don't use a lot and haven't tried a lot, because, damn it, they aren't cheap. What a waste of money if you never use it. It's not like it's something you can sell.

However, we do enjoy watching movies together, and we enjoyed a really memorable night with a silk scarf and a pair of handcuffs.