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by Asha
Rated: E · Campfire Creative · Article · Other · #1927968
Regarding relationship issue because of miscommunicaton
[Introduction]
SELFISH or SAVIOUR: Who Am I?
Searching for the clue to solve this mystery, that has constantly kept our mind think about it.
If you are the one to find the answer yet, rethink again.

Why it is so difficult for someone to decide, whether it’s time to let it go or still try with all your effort. And that ‘Someone’ can be either you or me.
No, it’s not about anything but of course a Lovely relation one can have. If you the one, holding and cherishing this beautiful string, of course you are blessed, My Dear!!.
But few are not so lucky, I won’t say unlucky (As that is not correct, and inappropriate if I say that), to carry forward this beauty of life further with them.
No, I am not saying they are incapable of holding it, because that’s not at all true, it may be due to some unavoidable situation or one Major reason called Misunderstanding.

But of course why this misunderstanding came into picture all of a sudden, when everything was going as perfect as a Fairy Tale Story. Whose mistake was it, why it didn’t get cleared at the first place, where it could have saved one?
Here is the answer to all the questions: Communication Gap
That’s the major loophole in any relation, any. If your communication with your partner is just like ‘Breeze touching your Cheeks’ or ‘Violin playing as a background score’, I would say it’s really amazing, going very well, but wait, just don’t think that’s all what communication means.
We really want life to go really smooth, with all love and care.

But life in true sense is a package of ups and down, isn’t it?
So if there is Romantic and most perfect phase of your relation, be ready to handle the worse part of it too, Don’t forget everyone has to, and you are not the only one, So dear, don’t blame yourself, ‘why always me’ .
But be strong and face it, with all your dedication and love, that you have for your special someone.
It’s true that you have to face several heart breaks, several nights sobbing alone, but, go on as long as , you feel that special someone is worth it.
As I told communication, this only factor can help you solving all the issues. Try to convince yourself first, that it’s truly worth going forward, if yes go ahead and keep your opinion to clear misunderstanding, from where the issue actually started. Be true to yourself and to your partner. Don’t let it go, until you think you have done justice to your role in a so called Perfect Relation.
Don’ t ever regret or feel bad after you are done with your part ,ever, now its other person turn to revert back, if they have faith, love and respect for the relation. If not leave it and let it go, they are just not worth it, seriously my dear, just leave them apart. If they have valued you, respected you they would have tried understand your part and effort you have put saving this relation. If they can’t understand, and see your love and effort now to save a relation, they won’t, not now, not later.
So now it’s time to let it go, don’t regret for no reasons, be satisfied. If someone cannot value you, they simply don’t deserve you as well.

Get up and embrace the beauty of this world, with Big Smile and Hug, don’t limit your happiness, because for sure you deserve more. It’s their loss, not yours.

I will say, YES you were selfish, to be saviour of your relation. And it’s actually good as your part , which ultimately make you more suitable for a perfect partner, who reciprocate and want the same,
i.e. Equal contribution, that’s called a Perfect Relationship. So Cheers!!!!

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