At peace

How does one come to peace with them selves? Do you sit and and think it threw? Do you let it all go without a second thought? Do you cry until you can't cry anymore? Or do you bury it all away and never talk about it again? Really how does one come to peace with it all? How do you come to peace with your soul? Pray and ask for understanding to it all? Do you talk it out with your closest friends to get there views and feelings? Or do we just keep living day by day, until one day we wake and what we wanted peace for is gone? Is our mind that once a situation has passed and we move from it we have peace? When do we truly accept what are problems and needs our as person? Then do we know or does that cause another problem in it's self? When one comes to peace with all they are searching for are we at peace? Or have we just accepted the situations and outcomes to our life? I think coming to peace with one ourselves only happens when both happen.