A new blog to contain answers to prompts |
Since my old blog "Everyday Canvas " became overfilled, here's a new one. This new blog item will continue answering prompts, the same as the old one. |
Prompt: Big-hearted People What makes a person lovable and with a big heart? Do you have such people in your life and what would your descriptions of them be like? ------------ If "with a big heart" means someone who loves everyone as they are--that is, without judgment or expectation and with total forgiveness--I don't know anyone like that. I mean everyone has a boiling point. Even God doesn't like trespassers, for what little I know. On the other hand, I came to know many fantastic people, some of them in my extended family, and they, too, could take only so much nasty stuff. To me, based on one of my uncles who I thought was a saint in disguise and lovable and big-hearted, such a person has to be authentic, first. This means, again to me, a person who has humility and no need for validation or recognition. Then, such a person is loyal, at least to his loved ones, and encouraging, while being positive and joyful. He also doesn't hold grudges and understands that all humans can and are bound to make mistakes. Thus, he forgives easily and encourages healing. Above all, he has resilience and is strong in hard times and lifts others up in every way he can. This is because he is endowed with empathy and understanding and is very generous with his time, love, and support. Better yet, he cares about others without expecting anything in return. This type of kindness in such a person is deeply ingrained in who he is. I should really say, "in who he was." Unfortunately, that uncle of mine passed away in 1990. I talked about him here, because while I was growing up, he became someone I wanted to emulate, at least a tiny bit; although, I knew then and I still believe now that he was inimitable and the "only" one of a kind. |