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Rated: 13+ · Book · Experience · #2171316

As the first blog entry got exhausted. My second book

Evolution of Love Part 2
March 20, 2025 at 2:27pm
March 20, 2025 at 2:27pm
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In the context of a marital relationship, the statement "If you don't trust me, we should break up" can be a complex and sensitive issue. Here are some thoughts:

*Why it might not be proper conduct:*

1. *Trust issues can be worked through*: Marriage is a commitment to work through challenges together. Trust issues can be addressed and resolved through open communication, counseling, and a willingness to grow and change.
2. ** Ultimatums can be damaging**: Issuing an ultimatum like "if you don't trust me, we should break up" can create feelings of resentment, hurt, and defensiveness. This can damage the relationship and make it harder to work through trust issues.
3. *MARRIAGE IS A COMMITMENT*: Marriage is a commitment to love and support each other through the ups and downs of life. Threatening to end the relationship over trust issues can undermine this commitment and create uncertainty.
Trust is a process*: Trust is built over time through consistent behavior, communication, and mutual understanding. It's not something that can be forced or demanded.
2. *Lack of trust CAN BE ADDRESSED*: Instead of jumping to conclusions and suggesting a breakup, it's essential to have an open and honest conversation about the trust issues. This can help identify the root cause and work towards resolving it.
3. *Breakups should be a last resort*: Ending a relationship should be a thoughtful and deliberate decision, not a knee-jerk reaction to a specific issue. It's essential to consider the potential consequences and explore all avenues before making a decision.

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