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Evolution of Love 2

by sindbad

Rated: 13+ · Book · Experience · #2171316

As the first blog entry got exhausted. My second book

Evolution of Love Part 2

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10 Most Recent Blog Comments:

Lyn's a Witchy Woman

Mar 21, 2025 at 4:23pm
In response to "Patience"

Perspective is definitely important.

Kåre เลียม Enga

Mar 20, 2025 at 4:46pm
In response to "My Beleif"

Yes, I agree. Fascist/autocratic/theocratic states in Russia and the USA will force Europe and Canada into a partnership that may benefit the world. May they be the light going forward.

Wordsmitty ✍️

Feb 1, 2025 at 12:32pm
In response to "Pooh and Piglet"

It's great to be reminded of this.

Thank you

Lyn's a Witchy Woman

Jan 19, 2025 at 11:16pm
In response to "The Moral Compass"

So very true but unfortunately morals are not something Americans are known for. It's so disheartening!

Joy

Jan 17, 2025 at 1:01pm
In response to "Priceless"

Beautiful entry and so meaningful!
"No longer in competition and living life simple" and I totally agree!

Lyn's a Witchy Woman

Jan 17, 2025 at 11:34am
In response to "Priceless"

Very well said, Sue. I agree with life is satisfying once we stop focusing on other's happiness and instead of focusing on ourselves. It was a difficult lesson but one that changed my life.

DLSpiritwriter☯️🦋🌳

Jan 15, 2025 at 1:36pm
In response to "Growing up"

Yeah, there's " No Mr Wizard to fix it!".
Excellent truths on the reality of life. Well written on life truths. I can also relate 😺!

Jayne

Jan 15, 2025 at 10:50am
In response to "Growing up"

Agreed. Letting go is the hardest. Second hardest: It ain't fair, and it's not going to be.

Kåre เลียม Enga

Jan 15, 2025 at 3:08am
In response to "Growing up"

Amazing post.

"Life goes on, long after the joy of living is gone" from Mellencamp's "Jack and Diane".

Yes, I've endured.

And yes, I've run away to survive.

Life goes on.

Hardest lesson? Letting go.

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Joy

Nov 18, 2024 at 11:41am
In response to "The ten percent"

Oh Wow! I wasn't expecting you to put God as our business partner at the end. I was too busy getting mad at the man in the story who kept the 100%.
Great story plot, btw. You certainly zeroed in on the man's ingratitude effectively. I guess, we all experience a bit of that ingratitude at one time or another in our lives. A big Ooops!

March 20, 2025 at 2:27pm

#1085743

Childhood trauma for trust issues

In the context of a marital relationship, the statement "If you don't trust me, we should break up" can be a complex and sensitive issue. Here are some thoughts:

*Why it might not be proper conduct:*

1. *Trust issues can be worked through*: Marriage is a commitment to work through challenges together. Trust issues can be addressed and resolved through open communication, counseling, and a willingness to grow and change.
2. ** Ultimatums can be damaging**: Issuing an ultimatum like "if you don't trust me, we should break up" can create feelings of resentment, hurt, and defensiveness. This can damage the relationship and make it harder to work through trust issues.
3. *MARRIAGE IS A COMMITMENT*: Marriage is a commitment to love and support each other through the ups and downs of life. Threatening to end the relationship over trust issues can undermine this commitment and create uncertainty.
Trust is a process*: Trust is built over time through consistent behavior, communication, and mutual understanding. It's not something that can be forced or demanded.
2. *Lack of trust CAN BE ADDRESSED*: Instead of jumping to conclusions and suggesting a breakup, it's essential to have an open and honest conversation about the trust issues. This can help identify the root cause and work towards resolving it.
3. *Breakups should be a last resort*: Ending a relationship should be a thoughtful and deliberate decision, not a knee-jerk reaction to a specific issue. It's essential to consider the potential consequences and explore all avenues before making a decision.

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