A prompt/writing entry a day |
You wonder why someone called protective services? You, pointedly, wonder who. You gave your four year old an ice cream cone piled high with twelve scoops, took pictures of his glee never thinking about the tears when it inevitably hit the ground or how sick he'd have been if he ate even half of it. You let your two year old play with a big kid quad runner. Unsupervised. He drives it on the road, across neighbor's yards. He drives it across my property. You, meanwhile, have no problem with this. You asked me: How can I expect a two year old to understand property lines, or road issues or dangers? If he can't understand these things, why do you let him ride it? You are inside the house, air conditioner running on those ninety-plus degree days while your kids are outside. You, the adult, don't put your car keys out of reach or lock your cars. You stand outside the car pleading or yelling or cajoling him with treats to get him to unlock the car door. Do you comprehend how hot it is inside a car sitting in ninety degree sun? Apparently not as it has happened numerous times. You didn't see the four year old lock the two year old in the trunk. When you came outside, you didn't know where he was. You yelled because we were looking for the trunk release. Your two year old takes off on the quad runner driving down the road four houses away. You are nowhere to be seen. Your nine year old screams for you to come get his brother. Then, you leave the baby screaming in the house to stroll down the street (carefully carrying your drink so you shouldn't spill it) to corral your child. You raise your voice to your eldest for 'not handling' his brother. You let your two year old go to the mailbox and play with the mail; ripping it to shreds or letting the wind scatter it across three yards or filling the mailbox with leaves and the toad he found. A mailbox is not a toy. Same kid carries neighbor's cats by tail or neck, throws them off tables and you get mad at the cat when your kid gets scratched. You leave the nine-year-old to do you what you seem unable to do-- to take care of the two and four year olds while you and your boyfriend take a twenty minute meander down the walking trail. He didn't know what to do with the skinned knee, what to do when the other one fell out of the tree. We won't always be here with a gizmo to unlock a car door, with ice and bandages. Others won't be kind when your kids leave your yard and break things on their property. None of us want your kids hurt on our property when they come and we aren't even home. We've all expressed concerns. You rebuffed them. We chose to do the kindest thing of all when it appeared you wouldn't listen, didn't care, or didn't think any of the above were issues. As a neighborhood, we didn't want your kids to be seriously hurt or end up dead due to your neglect. We had to wonder, given what we've seen outside your home: What happens inside? Everyone called. No blame here, or across the street or down the block. A shame, really that our neighborhood cares more about your children than you seem to do. 586 words |