Varying Shades of Gray - My Life

11-23-02

Well, let's see. CD and IV took me out to eat last night. Then I went to the club for awhile and a friend and I went to another club, where some so guys I know were gonna be. We ran into BM, who I haven't seen in awhile. it was so great to see him again. And then another couple came over and started talking. I had seen them one time before. They were both drunk. Everything was going fine until the one guy started getting rude with me. He kept saying F*** my life up and could f*** me over for the rest of my life. he kept saying it over and over. I kept asking him why he was saying that and what I had to piss him off. He said it adain, by this time I had, had enough and replied, "You couldn't f*** anything because you probably can't even get it hard." Well, that finally got him to say something else." He said, "You want a piece of me?" I simply replied, "You Don't know anything about me. You don't know who I am or what I'm capable of. On the other hand, I know everything about you." Which is really true. Ahhh, another advantage to not drinking. You can remember conversations with drunk a$$holes. :) He kept with his attitude a bit longer, i was staying pretty calm. I really was in a good mood and didn't want to get into it with him and ruin my good mood if I had to kick his a$$. Well finally I said, "You know, I am willing to let all this slide. THEY, on the other hand may not." that's when he turned around and seen about eight "my" boys standing there. The owner came over and asked what was wrong, and then told him he and his bf needed to leave. His bf was actually being nice and tried to get him out of there several times. The guy would not leave. About that time my giant of a friends :) walked in and asked the owner what was up, and he said that this guy was causing problems with me and he was trying to get him to leave. T (who stands 7'4" and weighs about 450-475lbs) grabbed the guy by his neck and bent down into his face and said, "Are you causing problems with my friend?" And with that, escorted the a$$hole out. The look on the drunks dude's face was hilarious. LMAO
Anyway, after that, I left and went over to DC and IV's for their party. It was fun. I had goten there when they had just started playinga game of strip-pool. :):):):) hehehe. I had fun and all was fine. It was a good night and wasn't gonna let anyone ruin it it, and I didn't. :)
Today, I went to the store and as I was in line, this lttle boy in front of me smiled so i smiled back. When it was his turn, I noticed he had two candles, candle holders and a "Happy Birthday Mom," card. That was sweet, you don't see a lot of 10-12 year olds buying their moms stuff anymore, unless it's at the coaching of someone else. Well, he handed the cashier his money and she said "you need a dollar-fifty" He searched throughs his pockets and she said well, you'll have to put something back." I couldn't let that happen. I looked at the boy and said, "No you won't." And gave him $1.50. he smiled and said thank you and I told him he was welcome and that his mom is gonna love the candles, and he smiled and left. Yeah. yeah yeah. So I'm big softie. The cashier was so touched that she looked like she was getting ready to cry. LOL. I'm just glad that I could help this kid who wanted to do something nice for his mother. When I told my friend TS, she said, "you know, he'll remember that. The kind stranger that helped him out one time. And it shows him that not *everyone* is mean and bad and that there is some kindeness left in some people." Damn, when she said that, I almost started crying.
Anyways, still anxious for next week. :):):)
Well, I guess I'll close this one for now. Have a great evening.