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The ups and downs of being single in your 30's...early 30's that is. |
After such a frustrating day, last night I talked Mark into having a few drinks at home. After our first drink was gone I brought up the idea of inviting someone over to play games...much more fun than watching TV since it was storming so we couldn't sit outside. We pondered for a few and I gave the suggestion to call Dominic, which I found out he had talked to for 1 hour the night before. He himed & hawed for a bit, but then called him and he agreed to come over. Took him a little while to get there, but when he did we all chatted for a few. My phone rang so I went to the other room to answer it and talk. My friend was in a very chatty mood so as she rambled on I overhead Mark and Dominic in the back room chatting quietly. Not sure how it started but I heard Mark say "you need to just relax, you are trying too hard to impress her...just play games and have fun." I was laughing. See, Dominic and I were having a good conversation about him being in the military and about what he does for a living...things Mark still did not know. What is it with guys, are they that scared to ask questions or truly care that little about getting to know someone?? ![]() While Mark was going outside for one of his cig. breaks he made a comment about being real in the context of being honest about himself. Dominic and I laughed to ourselves and when he was finally outside Dominic commented that he does not understand why he just doesn't say something to me. Apparently Dominic told Mark that I know and Mark said he knew I knew, but he still wasn't going to say anything. WHAT??? That makes absolutely no sense to me at all!! Around 2:00 a.m. Dominic decided he needed to go, which Mark tried to get him to stay, but he refused. Mark walked him to his car and 1 hour later came back in the house. So he won't say anything to me, but he sure isn't trying to hide it very well either. It makes me so confused!!!! |