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Improve your relationship with your man, based on discussions with hundreds of men.
Women have wondered for ages “what do men really need?” After discussing this with hundreds of men, including my own husband and brothers, I have discovered the “5 Things Men Need From Women.” This list comes straight from men’s mouths. It’s a short list so there’s not a lot to tackle. If you want to improve your relationship with your man, then focus on these needs, and in turn, you will get your needs fulfilled. I’ve tested it on my own husband and it works.

<b>1.          Men need great sex (and food too).</b>
Ok let’s just keep it real- men love sex. Men are wired differently than women and that can’t be changed. Just as women need to talk and feel connected through emotions and nurturing, men feel connected and loved through sex.  If you want to be happy and get the things you need, then you have to keep your man happy and give him what he needs. And what he needs is sex. A smart woman realizes that you can build mutual happiness by giving a man the sex that he needs and loves. A woman who keeps her man happy in the bedroom will, more often than not, get what she wants in return.

2.          Men need you to support them and boost their confidence.
As macho and tough as some guys may try to seem, that is usually not the case. Men have some of the same fears and insecurities that women do. Men need to be told “you can do it” and “I’m so proud of you” and “you’re the best!” It makes them feel good, and gives them motivation, especially when it’s coming from you. Your man wants you to believe in him so never ever put your man down. This is the ultimate dagger in the heart for a man.

3.          Men need time alone and time with their friends.
Just look at it as “downtime” and time to relax. We all need that. While your man is away from you he is going to be doing typical man activities- drinking some beer, watching sports, cracking jokes, talking about women, etc. It’s all fun and games. And when he leaves his friends, he is coming straight home to you. Most likely he will have missed you so it’s actually beneficial for him to spend time away from you. He can’t miss you or truly appreciate you unless he spends some time apart from you.

4.          Men need you to treat them with respect.
There is nothing bigger than a man’s ego. If you really pay attention to society then you will see that men take a lot of abuse and are put down quite often. If you believe in the law of abundance then you know that by giving your man the ultimate love and respect, then he will give it right back.

5.          Men need a fun and exciting companion.
There is nothing that can make a man happier than to be with someone who he truly loves, trusts, and feels comfortable with. Believe me, deep down all men want to find a great woman. Not many women- one great woman who he can spend his time (and life) with. How can you be a fun and exciting companion? You can start by giving your man the needs listed here, but also by being yourself. Develop your own interests and activities. The more you make yourself a priority, the more he will want to make you his priority.

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Patricia Jordan is a Financial Advisor, relationship coach, and CEO/ Co-Founder of several companies, including Wealth Builders LLC (www.wealthandcredit.com), a company helping people reach their financial goals. She is the author of numerous articles and workbooks on business success, successful relationships, and healthy and happy lifestyles.
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