A Friend

A friend came in my life, saying that you are not the one who you are,
but you are more than that.

A friend came in my life, saying that you are stiff from the outside but soft from inside.
A friend came in my life, saying that be brave for yourself.

A friend came in my life, saying that do not be so hard on yourself.
A friend came in my life, saying that keep smiling it suits you.

A friend came in my life, saying that I will prove to be a blank book which listens to everything but never talks on anyone other than the reader.

A friend came in my life, saying that do what makes you happy, be with who makes you smile, laugh as much as you breathe, and love as long as you live.

A friend came in my life, saying that when fear knocks on your door, you have three ways to face…
One is like as you pretend that you never heard the sound
Second, facing fear is also dangerous because anger is not permanent
You can only eliminate fear with love because when you love your dreams fear is automatically end and loneliness, is converted into a company.

A friend came in my life, saying that dreams can never be on hold. They are not dependent on knowledge or education, and they live with their natural guidance. Goals can set, but not dreams. Never confuse them.


If your perception is clear, life will be, easy otherwise it is difficult, and never be easy. Dreams are guide map to your life, everything you can do according to them.
They are not a hindrance.

They can be recognized, by heart and your passion will force you to, recognize them. If you kill your passion, you will lose your dreams and will pass dead life always.

A friend came in my life, saying that come out of fear, trust and break the bread. You will see the positivity.

A friend came in my life, saying that I am always ready listening to your heart ❤ and mind. Say whatever you want to say, then trust me as you trust yourself.

A friend came in my life, saying that I am sure about that fear is the reason. I also feel the magnitude of fear is so high that girl has not only lost her real self but wearing a pseudo mask of happiness, confidence and hides the main characters responsible. Her emotions have been cruelly crushed and make her believe that compromises are the only way to survive.

A friend came in my life, saying that I want her heart to speak, eyes to show me whatever they have seen, tongue to spit out all bitterness and ears to tell whatever they have heard. I want her to put off that mask and share all without fear.

A friend came in my life, saying that I am trying to realize her real self that she is very much alive, she can wake up and prove her potential and can trust some people.

A friend came in my life, saying that shock, bruising and cruel experiences are not the life holds. I am sure real you have realized that all but the pressure of fear is huge.

A friend came in my life, saying that she cannot take the risk because she cannot afford failure any more. Her self-steam level is too low that it is only on a survival level, but I am confident that she will come out of state. I will support her in any way.

A friend came in my life, saying that I choose you because I saw boredom in your eyes and repulsion from life. I have decided to kill your boredom, show you the happiness of life and return your trust in the relationship.

A friend came in my life, saying that freedom cannot be designed nor it can be enjoyed in a controlled environment.

A friend came in my life, saying that her emotional life since childhood, family life, friendships, betrayals, people who have hurt her, relationships in which she feels were unfair, times when she felt exploited at any level or type. Her whole personality is still unknown.

A friend came in my life, saying that I want to merge her two personalities and want to know reasons which split them.

A friend came in my life, saying that how someone can has two personalities when one goes with mood and limitations. She never shares her side during that. She keeps her self-sacred and hidden. You keep your behaviour under control.

A friend came in my life, saying that I want to be with her. She is full of life. I see her confidence and proving herself.
I have always seen her taking a breath but not having any signs of life. So was in search of it which is very much alive inside her.
So was in search of life.

A friend came in my life, saying that she is alive inside.
I will make both realize that they are two sides of the same coin.
They have to learn how to coexist. One personality has various shades. Then she, will throw the dead one and go for life.
It is a sign that she knows the way to life and trick to make her breath not to live. She will bounce back.

A friend came in my life, saying that first, she has to realize and opt for life. Then every act which gives a boost to live.
Engage herself with positivity.

A friend came in my life, saying that she is a beautiful, young, and energetic. She can turntables. I have seen all these characteristics in her.
She is a source of inspiration for me. Every cell of her body and mind is very much alive. It has responded with a full life whenever I checked it.

A friend came in my life, saying that never ignore your inner sense.
She is strong and never gives up. Every time, she sits in front of me, she self-communicates.

A friend came in my life, saying that she had locked and now even don’t pay attention to life.
Awake your emotions, emotions are the source of energy for life.

A friend came in my life, saying that she had convinced her emotional life for suicide and 🤢 slowly poisoned her inner self and, now she is not responding to the light of life.
It is not her fault, others have spoiled and damaged her, but it can be repaired. It is never too late.

A friend came in my life, saying that this all have flashes of scary moments and characters, who have played the role of numb her whole personality. Want to look into those people and those crucial moments. We have to look deeply study every moment, incident or happenings.

A friend came in my life, saying that her confusion is not because of decision making. It is the confusion of supposed and actuality.
We have disinformation about our self, body, relationship and real nature of things.
We even have the wrong parameters to judge self and others around us.
We do not know actually what is wrong and what is right. We have old and outdated ethical values system are trying to judge modern-day realities. The results are conflicting and create confusion.


A friend came in my life, saying that time and attitude of people around her have never accepted her original self. Her original self has been punished, rejected and ignored. So it has developed a trick to survive. A thick coat of so-called calmness, compromise and silent. She is indifferent to anything. It is not dead. It is alive inside. Like lava under mountains

A friend came in my life, saying that her mood swinging is a result of restrictions, uncertainty and feeling of helplessness. Time and social circumstances have not allowed her mental growth systematically. So it cannot concentrate for long.


A friend came in my life, saying that her mind has lost trust and confidence in self and other people.
I think it is getting awaken and getting trust back, so started to discuss things with me. I am positively hopeful.
I am waiting when she start sharing and discussing in person or share her feelings and family environment. Strictness in the name of morality.
Self-abuse, humiliation and insults in her past.
After that, we will be able to scrap out scars and open knots in thinking processes.
Just confess that her mind gets stressful when it thinks about sharing that stuff. She does not find dare to talk about relationships who are dear at one level, and they are responsible for her destruction.


A friend came in my life, saying that I want to win her trust.
I am in search of those troubles if she shares it will ease my way to exploration. I know she has suffered and has been betrayed.
She has been burnt into ashes so she is cold.
I believe that she will not break anything nor me.
Promise that she will show me every scar of her past to me and not burdening sharing the burden.


Oh, my passive friend. You are always like that.
Being passive is a result of restrictions and self-conditioning.
I want her to come out of the conditioned environment.
It is for better understanding to communicate every phase.
Instead of active or passive, we can ask for more comfort and soothing ways.
But it will take a little more time.
I know you have dared a lot to come upon this level and convinced yourself.
And bearing a lot of pressure from within during all this.

A friend came in my life, saying that dealing with things with patience is something creating peace within.
Accepting reality and knowing the nature of things is helping for peace of mind.
Means she, he has to enhance levels of patience.
Don't hold for long, Burst it out at me, release your nerves and be prepared for next.

A friend came in my life, saying that life is like a roller coaster.
Adventure, thrill and little fear but one must be sure that end will be safe.
Every person taking roller-coaster ride knows about safety.
Some people don't take ride due to weak nerves or bad experience of the past, but friends encourage them to ride and enjoy.
After a few rides person starts enjoying the ups and downs.
And it is more enjoyable when you a company with friends. Yale, shouting, closing eyes and sometimes holding arms of friend are energizers. They strengthen our nervous system and make us believe that we are safe.



A friend came in my life, saying that I want to take out all garbage and sorrowful memories. Then empty her pure heart will be able to recognize silence around and hear unsung songs.

A friend came in my life, saying that I want to tell her one thing. From that day, I called her and offered friendship. I felt sparks of wilderness and craziness in her, so I decided to explore her.
She was looking calm, silent and not interested in life's wild and craziness, but inside her, she was full of emotions and life.
I am trying to meet that wild, crazy and full of life girl.
No one has yet realized real her.

A friend came in my life, saying that I have seen your various shades.
You must talk about all weird mood swings and share your thoughts in detail. We can control and change personal emotional states, but you have accepted it and don't want to change that. You think it's absolute and you are perfectly fine.

A friend came in my life, saying that I want to be your childhood friend, that's why I am keen to know all from childhood to now. Fear has made her way difficult. She is afraid because of past experiences. She can talk about and find choices. One can always stay out when the door of your heart is closed, open it and trust people so they will enter and stay in there. But she never shares, even today you have written a lot but not shared anything of past. I never judge you. I always try to understand.

A friend came in my life, saying that you are still young, smart and fit. Don't judge yourself on the standard of others. I think your complex personality has roots in your puberty years. Due to lack of guidance or any other reason you did not handle it.

A friend came in my life, saying that accept yourself as it is. You are always in the pressure of fear that you will be rejected, so before anyone rejects you, you start rejecting yourself. Society has given you wrong yardsticks and you are trying to fit yourself in those parameters, but they are not true, so you are not able to prove yourself......at the end you think yourself a failure and become self-pity.

A friend came in my life, saying that I have selected you for friendship, so I will try my level best to save it. You will always find me there whenever you need to share or discuss any issues. I want you to come out of the illusion that we will enjoy friendship in imagination, be sure it is not possible and if we continued that way, we will become psychopaths. I hope you will understand and try to be a real self.

A friend came in my life, saying that you are my only selection for friendship in my life. I want you to be known to the happiness and joy of love. For that, I have worked a lot, sometimes on the cost of my self-negation, my principles and ethical values... I still want to save our friendship... And will wait for you to be bold enough, I am happy to know that you have tried to meet me, hope you will cross the bearer and meet me.

A friend came in my life, saying that you are part of my life. From the day you started to looking at me silently. In the early day, you use to sit near the wall and keenly observed me. That made the connection. Then I called you and you gave me your writings. After that, I asked you for friendship. You were shocked and said: “should I accept it ?!”