"You only have to..."

"We only have to change houses.” She said.
I believed her.
“You only have to live with him,” She said.
I believed her
“You only have to listen to him”
I believed her.
“You only have to move far away”
You only need to give up watching these shows and movies”
“You only need to continue going to church”
“You only have to obey the bible”
“We only need to change your brother’s name”
“You only need to stop celebrating these holidays and instead celebrate these”
“You only need to change all your morals”
“You only need to pretend to be straight”
That’s when I lost my faith.