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an attempt to analyze love
that thing called love...
yesterday a friend told me that he loves somebody else (not his girlfriend!) what's new to that? ive known this friend for avery long time an was a witness to his lovelife! he confessed that he loves very much this other girl whom he loved first before his current girlfriend. the girl is my friend and so is the girlfriend. i'm caught in the middle of three friends... knowing a secret that could unleash like pandora's box!
he is so in with this girl that everyting he does to his girlfriend is what he imagined to be doing to this girl all those sweet romantic thoughtful acts was not for his girlfriend!its super unfair aint it... he insisted that he loved this girl soo much that he felt like he is hurting this girl and himself because they are not together... he courted this girl before but she wasnt ready and HE feels like and regrets ever courting his current girlfriend because of this love that he hasnt over come yet. while his girlfried is super in love with him, he on the other hand is super in love with this girl!
girlfriend is: beautiful, smart, sexy all that you could ask for but he said he's quite a loner who has a very few friends while he is a very sociable person...
the girl is: happy go lucky, cheerful, sociable, she is pretty as well, told me before that she doesnt want anything beyond that friendship but eventually i think got developed with the guy for being extra thoughtful,nice, caring to her, she's also part of the group i and the guy belongs
the guy: a friend who tells me his lifestory, he is honest, caring and takes good care of his friends and especially his gf (before!)
my stand: i like his gf for him because for the 1st time ever a girlfriend loved him equally or if not more than he could give. i know the guy too much that i dont want my friend to experience whatever that is i know about the guy (its not that bad) but their is trauma from one of my closest friend to another? i want him to find himself and bring back whatever that spark that they had with his girlfriend... he thinks too much about the girl and his main excuse for me is the group( i told him its not the group really but the girl!) he doesnt want to breakup with his girlfriend he is afraid that her studies might be affected (we are all in college by the way) and so as the girl might get bothered by his decisions...
how i wish: the girl would tell the truth about his feelings and not let the guy hanging on wishful thinking everyday of what could've been them... that the gf will find somebody so great that he would just dump my friend! that nobody would get hurt!

love? what does it gotta do with it... well, that's love aint it?!?
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