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This week: What Is Courage? Edited by: Shannon  
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"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." ~ Lao Tzu
What is courage? If you look up the definition of the word on dictionary.com you get a generic response: "The quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., without fear; bravery."  Does that definition do courage justice?
According to Dr. Melanie Greenberg, there are Six Attributes of Courage:
 Feeling Fear Yet Choosing to Act
Following Your Heart
Persevering in the Face of Adversity
Standing Up For What Is Right
Expanding Your Horizons; Letting Go of the Familiar
Facing Suffering With Dignity or Faith
Though this is a more comprehensive definition, I still find it lacking. Let me tell you a story.
I know a woman who has been married for thirty years. She and her husband have three adult children and three grandchildren. Their eldest daughter lives over a thousand miles away and was experiencing a mental breakdown. The daughter, separated from her husband and unable to work due to a broken ankle, sank into a deep depression and began drinking to numb the pain. The children were basically caring for themselves as their lives imploded. Every dish in the house was dirty, toys and clothes littered the floor to the point that the children couldn't walk to their beds because of the knee-deep clutter.
The woman's husband took some time off work and drove to his daughter's house to help. He washed dishes every day and cooked their meals. He washed load after load of laundry. He took over thirty bags of garbage out of the home and repaired things (holes in the walls, a broken dryer, doors that wouldn't close) that needed to be fixed. He planned to stay for one month and get his daughter the mental health assistance she needed.
After being gone for a week he called his wife to say he wasn't sure he wanted to be married anymore. He thought he wanted a divorce--that this wasn't a spur of the moment decision. Rather, he said he'd thought about it for months, and though he wasn't 100% sure he wanted a divorce, he was leaning in that direction. He said he felt his life slipping away, he hadn't accomplished the things he'd planned to do, he wanted to know whether or not other women found him attractive, he wanted adventure. Then he said their daughter needed her mother. "I'm concerned for her life right now," he said. "We can put aside our issues for a few days. She needs you here. You should come up on your next days off."
The woman struggled with the decision for a few days but knew the right thing to do would be to visit her daughter and help any way she could. Her next concern was how to interact with her husband. She wanted to protect herself from any further heartache, so she thought, If he tries to hug me I'm going to say he doesn't have that privilege anymore--that only a man who loves and cherishes me gets to touch me. She wanted to reinforce the wall between them.
She told me that as she made the long journey to her daughter's house she had a lot of time to think, and her focus turned from fear, betrayal, and pain to If he does leave me, how do I want him to remember me? This shift made her realize that she wanted him to remember her with love, and so she made the decision to love him. Rather than closing off her heart she opened it wider. She became even more vulnerable. She wrote him a four-page letter thanking him for specific things he'd done for her and their children throughout their marriage. She expressed her love, respect for, and admiration of him. She ended the letter by saying, "I wanted to write this letter so that, regardless of how you want to proceed, you will have something tangible from me—something you can keep that states clearly and unambiguously how I feel and have always felt about you, for although the thought of losing you breaks my heart, it hurts just as much to think I never adequately expressed how I feel. I love you."
Many people see vulnerability as weakness, but it took much more courage for her to open herself up than it would have to close herself off. She wasn't focused on the outcome; she was focused on the pure intention of expressing love, gratitude, and acceptance for her husband. She surrendered ... and it worked. He came home and says he feels more secure in their relationship than he has in years.
How do you define courage? How have you acted courageously? How does your protagonist overcome the obstacles in his path? Is he vulnerable and open or closed off and guarded?
"I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." ~ Nelson Mandela
Thank you for reading.
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